What the Media Won't Tell You About Child Prostitution
Published November 16, 2009 @ 11:35AM PT

Update: Sadly, Shaniya's body was discovered a few hours after this story first posted.
Police in Fayetteville, North Carolina, are desperately looking for five-year-old Shaniya Davis, the little girl whose mother allegedly sold her into prostitution.
At first, this story might seem to be about one criminal woman low enough to exploit her own child sexually for profit. However, it tells the tale of something far more insidious that the mainstream media won't touch: even in a small town in North Carolina, there is a market for sex with five-year-old girls.
Antoinette Nicole Davis, Shaniya's mother, was arrested yesterday on human trafficking charges and charges related to prostitution. Authorities claim she "knowingly provide[d] Shaniya Davis with the intent that she be held in sexual servitude," and she "permit[ted] an act of prostitution." Shaniya went missing during a rare visit with her mother. Her father, Bradley Lockhart, had raised his daughter for the first several years of her life. But when her mother told him she'd been sober and employed for 6 months, he decided to let the girl spend some time with her. Shaniya was reported missing earlier this week, but has been seen being carried into a hotel room by a man since then. The man is being identified and Shaniya remains missing.
As sad and grotesque as it may be for a mother to knowingly put her child in a situatuion of sexual slavery, there is an even more disturbing element of this story that is going largely unexamined by the mainstream media.
Davis was able to sell her five-year-old daughter into prostitution because a prostitution market for children exists in America. Shaniya's story is making headlines because she is much younger than the average victim. However, according to the U.S. Department of Justice, the average age of entry into prostitution in the U.S. is 12 to 14 years old -- barely past the age of puberty. Some estimates put the range a year younger, at 11 to 13. So while Shaniya's story of being sold at age five might be an anomaly, stories of girls being sold, even by their own mothers, into prostitution at 12, 13, or 14 years old are much more common. All of these girls are sold because there are men demanding sex from children, and who are willing to pay for it.
There are a couple of ways we can try and prevent what happened to Shaniya from happening to other little girls. We can do what we've been doing, taking children away from poor mothers who have addiction issues and putting them in foster care. Of course, kids in foster care are more at risk for exploitation and trafficking as well.
Or, we could spend our time and resources ensuring that the next time someone wants to sell a child into sexual servitude, there are no buyers. Let's make buying sex with a child a dangerous act for a man -- dangerous because the chance of arrest and jail is so high. Let's make buying sex with a child -- not just pre-pubescent children but every child under 18 -- culturally disgusting. Let's make the risk far greater than the reward.
Because when there is no market for trafficked children, there is no incentive to sell them. And if there were no buyers in North Carolina, perhaps Shaniya would be home with her dad right now.
Photo credit: eflon
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CNN is reporting that they found Shaniya and she has been murdered. http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/11/16/north.carolina.missing.girl/
Too sad to say anything else right now.
Posted by Claudine O'Leary on 11/16/2009 @ 12:40PM PT
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Predators should never be released from prison,never.They will be predators for the rest of their lives.
Posted by Wendy hammond on 11/16/2009 @ 10:22PM PT
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agreed
Posted by John Moses Browning on 01/20/2010 @ 09:41AM PT
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I just heard of this case today on my local evening news channel and pulled up the information on the internet because it was too hard for me to believe a mother could treat her child in this manner. I thought perhaps I had misheard the newscast. Just when we think we have heard of the most heinous depraved behavior anyone could imagine, our senses are assaulted once again with yet another shocking example of how our society is drowning in immorality and deviant behavior. We should all be praying for the delivery of humanity from the grips of these wretched indecencies -- and working to eradicate the ability for these "people"-(animals?) to continue to get away with enslaving these children as sexual hostages. God bless little Shaniya - may she rest in peace.
Posted by Melinda Carlile on 11/16/2009 @ 11:39PM PT
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May Shaniya rest in peace and may her unjust death be a call to action for children in America. Her father apparently had been taking care of her until just a few months before he sent her to live with her "mother" -- I cannot imagine what he is going through, but also know that NOBODY would ever reasonably imagine that something this horrific and terrifying could happen to any child. Unfortunately, it is happening and as usual, when budgets get tight, the FIRST things cut are the services for children at risk, afterall, if you can't vote, you will never count to those who depend upon elections, apparently. Sadly, in this case, I'm not sure if it would have been prevented, since the child apparently had been safe and cared for, until recently sent to live with these monsters, who clearly had no regard or love for her.
There is some solace in knowing that those responsible for this gross cruelty and lethal abuse have been detected and will not be free to commit any more atrocities on any other children. The world loses that which is irreplaceable and precious, every time we lose a child.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/17/2009 @ 05:27AM PT
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"Davis was able to sell her five-year-old daughter into prostitution because a prostitution market for children exists in America. All of these girls are sold because there are men demanding sex from children, and who are willing to pay for it."
While it is certainly true that there is a sickening demand for sex from perverts for children to rape, and some are willing to pay in order to abuse and in this case, murder a child, it is certainly the grossest betrayal of trust, when it is a parent, profiteering off, knowingly sending the child into this hell on earth. The laws are not protecting children from predators, and they also are not protecting children from lethal parents. Meanwhile, policies are created favoring keeping children WITH biological parents, fine if you are dealing with even nominally humane and caring folks, but we already KNOW there will be rising rates of all sorts of abuse and neglect of children, when there is gross levels of poverty and destitution and children thrown in to that despair and left. This mother was a psychopath, who sought out access to this child for this purpose, and lured little Shaniya into her home, with lies, so she could sell her to a murderer, if indeed she wasn't directly involved in that too. I believe in euthansia for rabid dogs, and subhumans, should also be humanely put out of misery, in my view, where there is ABSOLUTELY NO DOUBT about their involvement in the cruel death of an innocent person, such as this child. I am opposed to the death penalty for everyone else, but NOT for perpetrators of this sort of CRIME AGAINST HUMANITY.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/17/2009 @ 05:46AM PT
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Although I agree that the mother is an nonhuman sick bitch, I must say...
You mention that neglect and abuse rises with poverty, and although it is true that the stress of poverty does contribute to that, I feel it necessary to point out that most parents in poverty try to do the best they can for their children and try to go on welfare or work extra hours or whatever THEY can personally do. I am not one for advocating that kids be taken away from their homes and families based on the families income or economic status, and put into foster care. My mother was a foster child, taken from a lower-middle class single mom, and believe me, that was not viable at all.
Posted by Pakhit R. on 02/06/2010 @ 11:21PM PT
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"Because when there is no market for trafficked children, there is no incentive to sell them. And if there were no buyers in North Carolina, perhaps Shaniya would be home with her dad right now."
No. If there were no market for trafficked children, she'd still have been grossly neglected by this monster and left out on corners, and left home alone, and not properly cared for, she would have remained vulnerable to whatever other perps were about, and from the sounds of it, plenty. The only difference being her disgusting excuse for a parent, wouldn't have made money in the process.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/17/2009 @ 05:49AM PT
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I know that asking for education ahead of people's 'rights' to be parents may be taking government intervention into people's human entitlements a bit far. But stories like this speak to a need to change something in the K-12 educational system, preferably toward devoting more time to teaching young people socially healthy behaviors and accountability for how their decisions affect everyone else.
That's not to say those lessons would necessarily have stopped Shaniya's mother from doing what she did, but it might have given her the sense to find another way to make money than destroying her child and/or to leave the girl with her father.
Maybe education about children's rights taught TO children would empower more kids with the idea that they are fully entitled to speak up themselves, without relying on a teacher or other professional to do so FOR them, when something is dangerously wrong at home.
Posted by Christine Clarke on 11/17/2009 @ 05:59AM PT
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What can we do about the problem of sexual predators to stop this? Is it even possible to stop people from finding children sexually attractive among those who do for whatever reason, or is it only possible to exercise more control over adults' decisions to engage in sexual conduct with children by toughening the penalties and laws that answer these crimes?
I agree with you that the market shares the blame with the mother, but how do we do a better job addressing the market?
Posted by Christine Clarke on 11/17/2009 @ 05:55AM PT
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How do we do a better job of addressing the market? I think Amanda said it best. Make it dangerous for the offender. Make the penalties severe. This means long prison stays. Much longer than are currently handed out. It also means close supervision if an offender is released from prison. This includes registries and restrictions. And in cases like this one, the parent should be held just as accountable, if not more. The public also needs to be educated about offenders such as the ones exemplified by this article. There are too many apologists for offenders such as these. The punshment for these offenders should equal the suffering they put their victims through.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/17/2009 @ 10:11AM PT
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Unfortunately you cannot curtail this type of behavior. I believe that at some point you have to get rid of these people. It's sad to say, I mean I know these people have families and such, but they're too destructive. You can't stop them and they obviously don't care about anybody else enough to stop themselves.
Prison is not a penalty for these people. Put them in and they just learn new tricks of the trade. In addition, we lock way too many people up in this country and it's expensive. I don't want to pay for it anymore. We need to reduce sentencing on BS charges like drug possession and come down MUCH harder on violent offenders such as rapists and murderers.
Posted by John Moses Browning on 01/20/2010 @ 09:46AM PT
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Everyone that is reading this should get involved on a state level. There are plenty of organization out there that could use your help. If you can't find one check out oathcoalition.org and start there.
Posted by Angela Kester on 11/17/2009 @ 08:35AM PT
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I only wish stopping child abuse was as easy as making more laws but alas it is not. If laws were effective in preventing child abuse and exploitation then it wouldn't still be happening. Shaniya's tragic death was the result of a society that demonizes the most marginalized people and refuses to provide services to those most in need. Had her mother had access to proper mental health care and addiction treatment, it is highly unlikely that this would have ever happened. If children werne't forced to run away from home because of abuse and instead had safe places to go, there wouldn't be 12 yr olds on the steets forced to sell themselves for survival. If parents who needed assistance for addiction or other menthal health issues had access to that, they would be better parents capable of properly caring for their children. Unfortunately, we would rather punish mental illness, in all it's forms, rather than treat it and the list of victims of this ineffective and inhumane approach grows longer every day.
As for paying closer attention to sexual offenders, I am all for this, if by that we mean those who are a true danger to society. If the rolls of sex offender watch lists weren't filled with the names of non-predatory people who were convicted for ridiculous reasons, i.e. 17 year olds convicted for having sex with their 16 year old partners, law enforcement would have a much easier time keeping track of the truly dangerous predators out there like serial rapists and child abusers.
Posted by Marie Camacho on 11/19/2009 @ 08:05AM PT
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Every time there is an innocent living being, whether human or of other species, whose life is taken, I am saddened, sickened, and outraged. When you add sex trafficking to the mix, and find that it is engaged in by the victim's own biological or nonbiological caregiver(s), who should be the defenders of these defenseless ones, it is, to me, diabolical. I am as angry and enraged as everyone else over this and every case. What a beautiful little child, who will never grow or be allowed to exercise her full potential.
But there is more to the story than supply and demand. There is financial desperation and a society gone berserk, a society whose moral center has been utterly lost. These incidents are hardly isolated, as Ms. Kloer points out. They are symptoms, and end results, of a society that has hit bottom. We need to change the whole society, not just punish the desperate who cross the line. Otherwise, there will never be enough prisons to hold them all.
Posted by Jamaka Petzak on 11/22/2009 @ 11:10AM PT
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I was sexually abused by my grandfather, so was my sister.. its the one thing in life I cant get over,... it happened at my grandparents house which my parents thought was a safe environment
I dont know how to stop it, but I think education is key... we need to teach children in school how to avoid predators, even roleplaying what to do if they are approached by a predator, and that its ok to tell a teacher or counselor, if they are in an abusive situation... most children are told not to tell and given some threat.. I was told by my grandfather that my father would kill him, if I told, and then my father would go to prison.. I wish someone had told me to ignore the threats and tell anyway..
but once a man has proved himself a pedophile, he should be locked away for life, because they dont change,...at least that way, we can protect some children from repeat offenders..
Its no wonder our culture is so sick when so many adults were abused as children
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/22/2009 @ 01:20PM PT
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I don't know why an offense like sex trafficking is not punishable by death. Prison? If they're really that desperate and doing it for the money, then why wouldn't free room and board with meals provided be appeealing. It's not some gray area ... if it's proven as trafficking, intent was clear. The threat of death might make a dent.
Posted by Oliver Sykes on 11/22/2009 @ 04:38PM PT
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It is so very difficult to comment on this subject as we all should find it atrocious. Sex and children do not mix and subjecting a 5 year old child to prostitution is beyond my comprehension.
There is a way to identify pedophiles and other sex offenders. It is called Phallometry.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penile_plethysmograph
"Phallometry is widely considered appropriate for treatment and supervision of convicted sex offenders: "Courts have permitted plethysmographic testing for monitoring compliance by convicted sex offenders with the conditions of their community placement as part of crime-related treatment for sexual deviancy."[37] Its use for the treatment and management of sexual offenders is recommended by the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers.[38] Becker notes it "should never be used exclusively in forensic decision making."[39] The sexual assault trial of basketball player Kobe Bryant in Colorado brought this device and its use to public attention before the case was dropped in 2004, because Colorado law would have required evaluation with this device following conviction.[40] The United States Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit recently addressed the procedures required before a supervised release program could include penile plethysmograph testing. [41] The device is routinely used at civil commitment facilities, but "some clinicians and offenders say it is easy, particularly in a laboratory, to stifle arousal and thus cheat on a plethysmograph test." [42] This has been reported to occur in 16% of cases.[43]
During the Catholic sex abuse cases, the reliability of the test was questioned by some officials in the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Philadelphia. Later, these officials chose to seek therapy at an institution where the plethysmograph was not used.[44]"
Posted by jack barr on 11/22/2009 @ 05:02PM PT
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Forget testing.. Pedophiles should go to prison for life, not as punishment, but to protect society.. let them have a comfortable life & bugger each other if they want... as long as they are locked up
I dont believe in the death penalty, because if murder is a crime, and we murder a convict, then we are guilty of the same crime we consider punishable by death .. to me, its circular thinking
I was on another thread, where I suggested legalizing prostitution and drugs, but only in one small very controlled area, of maybe every 2 adjoining states.. with mandatory health & safety checks... like Las Vegas, but if you engage in prostitution outside that area, you go to prison for life.. Period..
So you would have an advantage, and a deterrant
Women will always want to make money by prostituting themselves, and men would have a safe & legal place to pay for sex... the tax revenue generated could be used to protect children from predators and other abuse
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 08:58AM PT
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I believe there was a recent case about someone who was a registered sex-offender and even served in prison. There we something like 11 bodies found in his house. We are not guilty of the same crime by protecting our families, children, and neighbors from repeated offense. Why should their heinous crime allow them a free support at our expense? Why exempt them from consequneces aat our expense? Death as a consequence for these crimes might make some of these deviants decide it's not worth it.
Posted by Oliver Sykes on 11/23/2009 @ 09:16AM PT
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Marianne, there are some things deserving of death. I had trouble grasping this concept until I owned a gun. I thought, should someone die if they're breaking into my home? I realized the answer was no. Breaking into my home to steal my television does not deserve death. Breaking into my home to rape or kill my wife or myself deserves death. Two lives are equal until one person cheapens his life or risks it in such a way. Each person controls the value of his own life.
People do not hesitate to put down a rabid dog, but a person who enjoys causing pain and inflicting torture and death on another person is much more dangerous than a rabid dog.
I can't justify legalizing prostitution in any way shape or form because those women have been abused previously. We can't, as a society contribute to this type of thinking.
Posted by John Moses Browning on 01/20/2010 @ 09:58AM PT
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That poor little girl. She visits her mom and gets sold into prostitution at age 5. That's disgusting! She most likely had no idea what sex even was. Child trafficking is disgusting! Sex trafficking is horrible! This should never happen to any girl no matter who they are.
Posted by Casey Williams on 12/18/2009 @ 02:01PM PT
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It shouldn't happen, but it does right here in USA. The worst part about it the media really doesn't care and many of the children who are missing in USA are either sold as sex slaves in USA or shipped to others countries. This is why many of the missing children report cases goes unsolved.
This little girl is one of the many cases.
Posted by Lara Nunes on 01/18/2010 @ 09:28PM PT
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