"It's The Oldest Profession" and Other Bullshit Excuses for Inaction
Published May 28, 2009 @ 06:50AM PT
Those of you who regularly read this blog know that I don't do a lot of casual swearing, but in this case "bullshit" is the most appropriate word to describe one of my least favorite arguments in the world. The argument usually goes something like this:
Prostitution may be related to human trafficking, but it is the "world's oldest profession", and therefore, it will always be around. So it's silly of us to waste our energy trying to figure out how to fight it, reduce it, regulate it, protect women and children from it, or make it safe.
Slate.com is the most recent outlet to publish an article making this claim, but it's neither a new nor creative one. I can't even say it's just lazy, since this goes a step beyond lazy. It's quite simply, bullshit. The "oldest profession" argument esentially says, we know that prostitution exists and is harmful to women and girls, but we're not going to do anything about it, because we don't think we can.
I fully support debating how to best create a policy around prostitution that reduces human trafficking and keeps women and children safe. And I think that intelligent, well-meaning people can come to different conclusions about how we reduce violence and trafficking in prostitution- legalize, decriminalize, or crack down. But to give up? To tell the abusers and traffickers that they win, that they are too powerful for us? To me that is not an option.
Prostitution is old. So is hunger. So is poverty and murder and tyranny and cancer and child abuse. So is every single cause here on Change.org, and most issues of social justice today. Just because something is old, rooted in society, and difficult to fight, does this mean we should give up? The pervasiveness of prostitution in history does not make the 14-year-old on the streets of Las Vegas any less exploited. It does not make the women held in a brothel in Mexico City any less enslaved.
So please, let's put aside the bullshit excuses for inaction, step up, and work to end human trafficking.
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Nice rant.
I suspect that prostitution is becoming less common, and is much less common than it used to be, just because people are more sophisticated than they used to be. I think more and more people find it tasteless.
When they were promoting the new Merchant of Venice film, with all those barebreasted actresses playing prostitutes (one step forward for Jews, two steps back for actresses), they were saying one-third of women in Venice were prostitutes at the time, including many nuns.
Not that many people pay for sex these days - a lot less than I would have thought from the hype. Perhaps paying for sex is no more common than sexually abusing children, and falls into the same declining category?
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/28/2009 @ 08:20AM PT
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Human trafiking is barbaric, and is in fact slavery. It should be a death penalty offense worldwide [Wouldn't it be nice if the UN did something really useful regarding this traffic ?].
Prostitution should be legalized, licensed, and regulated, just like any other trade. There should be mandantory education requirements regarding STDs and sanitation, there should be periodic health testing, and there should be a minimum age established by law. Some basic self-defense training would be desireable.
If a woman has the right to choose whether or not to give birth, she should also have the right to decide if she wishes to use whatever physical attributes and talents she may possess to her monetary advantage.
Bringing the trade off the streets and back indoors, particularly in a group [brothel] or other secure setting, would make it far more difficult for those who prey on prostitutes to harm or rob them, to get away with it. Forcing prostitutes to work alone, unprotected, and in the darkness makes them as vulnerable as possible.
Oh, and BTW, can someone please explain to me the difference between porn actors and actresses and prostitutes ?
Posted by mike agri on 05/31/2009 @ 12:45PM PT
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@ mike agri
Seems the difference is that the porn actors are being paid by a third party to have sex with each other while being photographed/videotaped, as opposed to one paying the other for sex.
I think it's ridiculous that one's legal and not the other.
Posted by Heather McClellan on 05/31/2009 @ 02:27PM PT
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Mike agri is So right. I couldn't have said it better myself. I don't know that I would go so far as to mandate sanitation requirements and/or health testing, because I believe most women will do these things on their own given the opportunity. I will however; agree wholeheartedly with a minimum age requirement and this should be Strictly enforced.
This is the truest statement ever uttered regarding the business of prostitution.
"Forcing prostitutes to work alone, unprotected, and in the darkness makes them as vulnerable as possible."
When will people wake up and see that legalizing is the only way to go??
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 06:05PM PT
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I believe that prostitution can be approached in the same manner as the Governments of Germany and Canada did by providing medical AND dental care for the ladies/men of the night. However, that would be TOO close to universal health care and that's just something the powers that be in the U.S. can't have. I would be paramount to being, dare I say it....HUMANE?
Posted by Louis Anthony McDaniel on 06/08/2009 @ 09:15AM PT
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Unfortunately, the tastelessness of prostitution doesn't do much to decrease its practice, it just makes people do it more covertly. Human trafficking, which includes sex trafficking, is actually the fastest growing criminal industry and the third most profitable illegal trade industry in the world - behind drugs and weapons. There are more slaves today than at any point in human history. And it doesn't just happen in developing countries.
I agree - we need to do something about it. Small steps:
www.tradeasone.org
gives some interesting stories and has items for sale that go toward ending human/sex trafficking.
Posted by Jessica Howard on 05/28/2009 @ 11:14AM PT
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"There are more slaves today than at any point in human history"? That's a strong statement to make, and I find it a little hard to believe. Is there documentation somewhere on that?
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/28/2009 @ 05:17PM PT
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Look it up; search for yourself. You will find this is true.
http://iabolish.org/slavery_today/primer/index.html
www.brandedphx.com
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/04/opinion/04iht-edkristof.1.19068466.html
Posted by mary kaech on 05/31/2009 @ 08:25PM PT
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Well, remember, never in the history of the planet have there been this many people. I expect there are more non-slaves now than ever before, too.
A better question, if you want to do the Chicken Little thing, is whether there is a greater proportion of humanity enslaved now than ever before? And there might be: wealth is certainly more concentrated than it ever has been.
But it's a complex topic. You need to be pretty careful about who you define as a slave. US agriculture is based on the labor of an underclass, mostly Mexicans, who have very poor protections under the law, work very hard hours for very little pay, and live in remarkably poor spaces.
Are they slaves? Well, no: slaves go through barbed wire and risk getting shot to escape their servitude, whereas these people do that to enter into it.
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 09:08PM PT
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But Conrad- We are not referring to Mexicans who work in the fields here. Everything you said is true but you failed to mention that they do this willingly because the pay they receive, though low by U.S standards, is WAY more than they would ever receive in Mexico. But we are not discussing that here. When a person is threatened with severe beatings, broken bones, and/or death to themselves or their loved ones if they do not work for you and they receive no compensation whatsoever, that is the purest form of slavery there is. How can you even think otherwise. These girls aren't given $500 on a Saturday night and told to go enjoy themselves. They are threatened with merciless violence each and every day unless they comply fully with their master(s). And this is why I am advocating to make prostitution legal for those women who would rather sell sexual favors than wait tables for $3 per hour. Because it will provide women who are being trafficked an outlet through the legal system that they do not currently have.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 10:04PM PT
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It was a tangent, Mike.
It seems very, very likely that at least some of them were there through a free and deliberate choice, in preference to the alternatives, for money: and such a prostitute's position would be more like a illegal Mexican farm-worker than a slave.
(Although I didn't have that in mind when posting.)
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 10:44PM PT
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Umm, yes, I was thinking in terms of percentage of population, rather than actual numbers of people.
I know that most cultures in the past had slavery of some sort or other. I suspect the only ones (if you go back far enough) that didn't have them were the ones who couldn't afford to feed them. Certainly they were common enough in agricultural societies.
The Vikings had slaves, and sacrificed them to their gods right up until they converted to Christianity in 1000 CE. The Roman Empire relied heavily on slaves. Native North American tribes sometimes had slaves. Etc. etc. I think slavery used to be the normal way you treated your neighbours. Until the modern era.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/01/2009 @ 07:59PM PT
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The Inquisition was a profession once. It helps to bring it right back to what the activity really is, rather than give it a contempory name or call it a place on a map.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 05/28/2009 @ 05:22PM PT
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"Prostitution is old. So is hunger. So is poverty and murder and tyranny and cancer and child abuse. So is every single cause here on Change.org, and most issues of social justice today. Just because something is old, rooted in society, and difficult to fight, does this mean we should give up? The pervasiveness of prostitution in history does not make the 14-year-old on the streets of Las Vegas any less exploited. It does not make the women held in a brothel in Mexico City any less enslaved."
BRAVO!
Posted by Michele Rodriguez on 05/28/2009 @ 07:15PM PT
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Agreed and to start the debate - the case for acting against the vicious cycle of poverty, of which prostitution, trafficking and epidemic rates of HIV are symtoms is made in a paper calling for actions which aim to interrupt and terminate that cycle which renders generation after generation into street life.
We make this case for joint action for US and other governments, to act in ending poverty and fostering democracy rather than spending equivalent sums with no SROI on overseas occupations.
'We see a nation staggering under the crushing burden of widespread poverty, the extent of which no one is sure but which most people assessing the situation realistically is at least twenty five percent of the population. We understand that communication - particularly high-speed Internet communication at a cost that is affordable to half the population and all businesses - is essential for economic growth and development so that poverty can be reduced.
The extract below is from an economic strategy proposal delivered to the US Senate.
'We see a staggering array of social problems arising directly from poverty, including but not limited to tens of thousands of children in orphanages or other state care; crime; disrespect for civil government because government cannot be felt or seen as civil for anyone left to suffer in poverty; young people prostituting themselves on the street; drug abuse to alleviate the aches and pains of the suffering that arises from poverty and misery; HIV/AIDS spreading like a plague amidst prostitution, unprotected sex, and drug abuse; more children being born into this mix and ending up in state care at further cost to the state; criminals coming from poverty backgrounds, ending up as bandits, returning to communities after prison, with few options except further criminal activity. These are all part and parcel of the vicious negative cycle of poverty, and this threatens to destroy Ukraine, if Ukraine is defined in terms of people rather than mere geographic boundaries. Overall, population is steadily declining; families have not sufficient confidence in tomorrow to reproduce more than 1.2 children on average per couple.'
http://www.p-ced.com/projects/ukraine/national/
Jeff
Posted by Jeff Mowatt on 05/31/2009 @ 12:01PM PT
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I think people get cause and effect backwards here. Poverty does not cause human rights abuses, because people who would never treat others like that are likely to pull together under stress (as many did in the Holocaust) rather than turn on each other.
I think it's the other way around: human rights abuses cause poverty. Prostitution, sexual abuse, and poverty (being denied access to basic economic resources) are all the outcome of some people thinking they have the right to hold themselves above others at the others' expense.
Research has traced bigotry to authoritarian environments, especially authoritarian parenting. The shift away from authoritarian parenting after the Holocaust (via the research it led to) resulted in the generation of people who led the Civil Rights movement and the second wave of feminism, which led to where we are now.
Obviously, individual poverty affects individual decisions. However, I don't think poverty is the root source. I think basic attitudes are.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/31/2009 @ 07:27PM PT
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Denial of economic and social rights are a cause of poverty, yes. Some people pull together during times such as the Holocaust, agreed.
Consider the opposite, for example in Ukraine's 1930s Holdomor where all food was taken away and many were driven to cannbalism:
http://holodomor.org.uk/
In this same Eastern European country last year, a member of their parliament spoke out about prostitution of the socially disenfranchised. He was referring to children in orphanges, between the ages of 3 and 6 and was justifying his immunity to prosecution as a parliamentarian on the grounds that it offered protection from law enforcers who were involved in the exploitation.
http://zik.com.ua/en/news/2008/03/26/130980
We are talking here in a worldwide context, far wider than that of the domestic United States and the great majority who've never seen another part of the world. We cannot include these acts as any acceptable freedom of choice, to engage in prostitution, when there is clearly no choice available.
The paper I link to above, lays out a set of interrelated problems in which poverty denies access to human rights which in turn operates a vicious circle to create more poverty. 70% of girls in this country who have been born into poverty leading to life in an orphanage will end up in street prostitution. Some will be trafficked, many will become infected with HIV where prevelance in Europe is highest and in the end, we are placed at risk by a threat that knows no boundaries.
The deputy referred to above, who spoke out last year has since died in a road accident. It's a common cause of death among those who speak out.
Jeff
Posted by Jeff Mowatt on 05/31/2009 @ 11:03PM PT
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http://holodomor.org.uk/ - - - bad link, 404 Error, (on my computer)
Posted by Joseph P. Quinn on 06/01/2009 @ 12:26AM PT
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The link may have picked up trailing spaces Joseph. try this:
http://www.holodomor.org.uk/
Posted by Jeff Mowatt on 06/01/2009 @ 12:45AM PT
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I definitely have to agree, whatever action is taken, good or bad, right or wrong, it's better than inaction any day of the week.
Posted by Mike Conway on 05/31/2009 @ 12:32PM PT
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I have previously posted on the other Human Trafficing/Prostitution thread....
My detailed repsonse to this topic is posted on my BLog:
http://www.arionshome.com/social-activism/prostitution/
Posted by James O'Neill on 05/31/2009 @ 01:01PM PT
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I thought that what a woman does with her body is a privacy issue, as evidenced by Roe v. Wade? How, exactly is prostitution any business of anyone other than the prostitute and the customer? The reason that women are capable of being "enslaved" is directly connected to the fact that it is illegal. I see no evidence to suggest that the prostitutes in Amsterdam are enslaved or that they are brutalized. In fact, they appeared to be quite content when I visited. Additionally, you will see no children involved in prostitution there either. Your argument is intellectually inferior.
Posted by LoyalPatriot USA on 05/31/2009 @ 01:07PM PT
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LoyalPatriot USA:
Did you consider that maybe it's just an act? So you flew all the way to Amsterdam to have sex, and even then you had to pay for it. Is it too wild to assume that your impression of their content is simply wishful thinking on your side, and suppressed repulsion on theirs?
Posted by Tangerine Tangerine on 06/01/2009 @ 10:17AM PT
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"The reason that women are capable of being "enslaved" is directly connected to the fact that it is illegal."
You are So right Loyal patriot. You know what most people do many are simply refusing to accept it, that legalizing prostitution would bring an end to trafficking and sex slavery. I commend you for your intelligent and insightful comments.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 06/02/2009 @ 11:21AM PT
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The idea that sex is an act with a single giver and a single receiver needs to be buried once and for all. As long as we keep believing this ancient stereotype that sex is a sacrifice (of time, convenience, morality...) on women's part (which is to be compensated)- and only a matter of privilege on men's part, there will be an illusion of trade. And with it all the implications and side-effects brought on by its illogical argument and unfairness: sexist behaviour, discrimination, prostitution, unrealistic gender ideals, sexual insecurity etc.
Comparing (consensual) sexual intercourse to a service or merchandise is deeply flawed - since sexual intercourse, in itself, IS an exchange. (X having sex with Y and equally- Y having sex with X. Sex, being a mutual experience, cannot be "given" by X/Y to Y/X. It's made possible and experienced by both.) Further adding of value and pricing on either side would mean overrating that side- while undermining the other.
And to all the sex buyers out there (especially all the busy academics who post here frequently) if dating isn't an option, I recommend one-night stands. Even though this means the end of some exciting pretend games and revival of lame pickup lines, you will be rewarded with a notion that the other person is just as ho*ny, desperate and willing as you are.
Posted by Tangerine Tangerine on 06/02/2009 @ 04:17PM PT
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Okay, first off, I certainly didn't mean to click "Like" on this comment, and there's no way to take it back. Oh well.
"As long as we keep believing this ancient stereotype that sex is a sacrifice (of time, convenience, morality...) on women's part (which is to be compensated)- and only a matter of privilege on men's part, there will be an illusion of trade."
The problem with that comment is that men do hire men, women do hire women, and women do, in fact, hire men. This "women = victim and man = buyer only" is another myth that needs to be put to bed.
Posted by Mike Conway on 06/03/2009 @ 10:06AM PT
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Mike,
I'm pretty sure everyone is aware that straight women also buy sex, and so do homosexuals of both genders. But lets not waste time arguing which stereotype is leading, and what example is being discussed and repeatedly mentioned in this thread.
Even so, the sex formula (in 2nd paragraph) can be applied to any type of sex- (non-consensual acts excluded) -it doesn't even have to be between only 2 individuals.
But just to keep things clear, both straight and homosexual sex buyers would benefit from one-night stands, in my opinion.
I used the most common/most discussed scenario as an example to keep things simple, but the illusion of "sex trade" + the illogical argument for a necessary compensation exist in all types of prostitution, even many forms of socially acceptable relationships.
re your last paragraph: I'm afraid you misunderstood what I wrote. If you reread my previous post you will see that I don't describe prostitutes as victims- (i agree with you there) I do however imply that sex buyers are being scre*ed in more than one sense.
I clicked "like" on your comment, so that you can sleep tonight. Are we cool now?
Posted by Tangerine Tangerine on 06/03/2009 @ 11:44AM PT
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There is a difference between prostitution and being trafficked. There's a difference between being a captive of a pimp and the ladies at Cathouse.
Posted by Heather McClellan on 05/31/2009 @ 01:16PM PT
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There's a difference in between being a captive of anyone and a Cathouse where the women are willing participants. This should not be criminalized. Only holding women captive against their will and forcing them to comply should be a criminal offense. That and anyone beating, raping, threatening, or killing a woman engaged in the sex industry should also be prosecuted. Many times these crimes go unpunished because they are only prostitutes. HOW SAD!!!
Posted by Mike Nichols on 06/02/2009 @ 11:26AM PT
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Prostitution should be legal. Someone once commented that using attractive women in advertising--magazines, billboards, etc. (what to speak of women stripping, working in topless bars or merely posing nude!) is a subtle form of prostitution--women using their bodies for income.
Tracy Clark-Flory writes in Salon.com:
"At $25-$30 per hour, prostitutes make approximately four times what they likely would outside of the sex industry. Of course, that doesn't take into consideration on-the-job risks like contracting an STD (condoms were used in only a quarter of dealings) or being assaulted; researchers estimate that sex workers are assaulted an average of once a month. There's also the threat of being arrested, but according to the Economist, 'Prostitutes are more likely to have sex with a police officer than to be arrested by one.'"
Problems such as contracting STDs, being assaulted, pimp violence, etc. would not exist if prostitution were legal.
Prostitution was legal in ancient India for the same reason the Prohibition of alcohol failed in the United States.
Commenting on Srimad Bhagavatam 1.11.19, A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami writes:
"By tricks of chance, one may be obliged to adopt a profession which is not very adorable in society...even in those days, about five thousand years ago, there were prostitutes in a city like Dwarka...This means that prostitutes are necessary citizens for the proper upkeep of society. The government opens wine shops, but this does not mean that the government encourages the drinking of wine. The idea is that there is a class of men who will drink at any cost, and it has been experienced that prohibition in great cities encouraged illicit smuggling of wine.
"Similarly, men who are not satisfied at home require such concessions...It is better that prostitutes be available in the marketplace so that the sanctity of society can be maintained."
Even some conservatives concede that prostitution can be victimless. In a 1995 column entitled "Prostitution as a Privacy Right," Robert Craig Paul, a syndicated columnist for the Washington Times, wrote:
"If a woman's right to control the use of her reproductive organs permits her to enter into a cash transaction with an abortionist, then how can this fundamental right of privacy not apply to other transactions involving her use of her body?
"...abortion has been against the law and restricted with greater intensity for more of our history than prostitution, reflecting social norms that abortion, viewed as infanticide, is more immoral than prostitution...
"In contrast (to abortion), prostitution is entirely an act between consenting parties that does not affect the bodily integrity, identity and destiny of a third party (the unborn)...
It is legal nonsense that privacy conveys the right to abort, but not the right to ingest drugs or engage in sodomy...
"It will be interesting to watch the court sort out on the basis of Roe v. Wade why it is legal for a woman to contract for abortion but not prostitution."
Again, prostitution should be legal.
Posted by Vasu Murti on 05/31/2009 @ 01:23PM PT
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You know, I never thought I would see Srila Prabhupada (the aformentioned swami) quoted in such a debate. I can't really argue with one of the greatest spiritual minds of India. Jai Prabhupada!
Posted by Mike Conway on 05/31/2009 @ 04:06PM PT
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I agree. I think legalizing prostitution would put an end to trafficking as well as reduce the number of assaults against these women. It would also free them up to freelance being able to keep the money they earn rather than working under the slave conditions they currently do. They would be able to report crimes such as rape or assault without fear of being prosecuted themselves. It's kind of like the drug dealer who gets shot in the shoulder. Does he report it to the police? Of course not.Because if he did HE would likely be the one to go to jail.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 05:55PM PT
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prostitution was legalized in the Netherlands in 2000, and human trafficking/forced prostitution has been on the RISE since. legalizing the exploitation of one person -- in exchange for dollars -- will never many anything better. it will only cheapen the value of women and make it more common to traffick them around.
Posted by mary kaech on 05/31/2009 @ 08:30PM PT
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Well; maybe they don't have laws against trafficking. If not; they should. I cannot speak for The Netherlands. Why don't you check out France? I have friends who live there and it is legal there too. Do some research and see what happens to a trafficker who is caught in France. I promise they don't go to that country. Furthermore; no one is talking about legalizing the exploitation of one person by another person. And just what do you think a woman working at Hooters is? That's not exploiting for pay? That doesn't cheapen the value of women? (Btw; there are male prostitutes too) What about women who WILLINGLY work at striptease establishments, Playboy magazine? The list is endless. Prostitution, were it legal, would be no different. The woman could freelance (do it on her own) or could enter into a Legal Contract with an employer to perform specified tasks, under clean, sanitary, safe, conditions in exchange for money. What's the damn difference????
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 10:12PM PT
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Mike, it is true that most (all?) countries have both legal and illegal forms of exploitation, which does come across as hypocritical. But don't assume that whether it's legal or not reflects whether people who do it are happy with it.
And you forgot acting. Here's a recent example:
http://www.imdb.com/news/ni0813526/
And I have my own opinion on sexualized content in acting on my website if you're curious. The link is in my profile.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 08:33AM PT
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The problem with this argument is that it erroneously links prostitution ; i.e. the consensual selling of sex between two adults, with human trafficking.
I don't buy it.
I am completely in favor of measures that will stop human trafficking. But, cracking down on Craigslist to stop human trafficking is no more effective than waterboarding inmates to stop terrorism.
It is a overreaction that has a negative impact on free speech and an open society in spite of the fact it is ineffective (and perhaps even counterproductive) to addressing the real problem.
Posted by Eric Brown-Munoz on 05/31/2009 @ 02:08PM PT
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I fixed the spacing before posting it, but the CMS mangled it again. =( You can check my BLog for the more readable version: http://www.arionshome.com/social-activism/prostitution/
=)
Posted by James O'Neill on 05/31/2009 @ 02:30PM PT
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I think most of this article could have been replaced with:
"The justification that 'Prostitution is the world's oldest profession' is a non sequitur argument.
Also, lets relive the prostitution/human trafficking debate from the first of the month."
Posted by Anthony Machado on 05/31/2009 @ 03:20PM PT
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To a person raised in a middle-class, Christian family, prostitution is abhorrent. There are, however, other cultures where this is not so, (although, admittedly, few).
I would like to see an end to prostitution because it is degrading to women, (in my culture), and is the source of the abominable abuse of young women.
However, that is my opinion, and I come down on the side of women who wish to engage in prostitution having a right to do so. It is another activity wherein the victim of the "crime" is the person who chose the act.
It would be great if we could move the age of consent to about age 28 so that women considering prostitution would have some time between their leaving home and their adulthood to evaluate their choice. Also, it would make human traffickers de facto criminals abusing minors and easier to prosecute. But women would never agree to the move.
That leaves us with the choice of prostitution as it is currently practiced as a legal or an illegal activity. It is hard for me to see how making it illegal would make it better. That certainly hasn't worked for drug use. Inevitably, the gangs of sex traders are run by the same type of psychopath that run the drug gangs.
Given the alternatives, I suppose that legal, regulated prostitution on the Nevada model is the best we can expect.
Posted by Joseph P. Quinn on 05/31/2009 @ 05:08PM PT
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It's interesting that you suggest raising the age of consent. The age of 18 is pretty arbitrary: at 18 society says to you "You're an adult now. Good luck." and it's just assumed (or hoped?) that you're ok. It used to be 16, then before that it was 11/12. It seems to be moving to 21.
When I took women's self defense, 10 out of the 12 of us were age 35 and up. In general, women don't start standing up for ourselves until 30s or 40s. The same may also be true of men.
So if we were going to raise the age of consent, I'd say make it age 35 or 40. Or better yet, base it on research. Unfortunately the research I'm familiar with indicates that age doesn't have much to do with how easy it is to pressure people into doing things they don't want to (e.g. the Milgram experiments).
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/01/2009 @ 08:37PM PT
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We don't have a full-employment economy. Education/skills training is out-of-reach for most. We shredded the social safety net. Prostitution is a horror, but better than dying in the streets.
Posted by DH Fabian on 05/31/2009 @ 05:36PM PT
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For heaven's sake, you're supposed to be campaigning against trafficking, not continuously confusing it with prostitution. By conflating consensual adult sex for money with either commercialised child abuse or the experience of slavery-like conditions, you're part of the problem.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 05/31/2009 @ 06:37PM PT
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This author claims to be in support of women's rights - well what about a woman's right to charge money for sex? I don't understand why it's allright to clean people's fingernails, wash the dandruff out of their hair, squeeze their zits, rub their naked bodies with creams, cook for them, clean their houses for them, iron the clothes, do the wash, vacuum - every service possible is okay to offer - everything except sexual services. Pish. That's what I have to say to that. As for the enslaving and raping of unconsenting children and adults? This is a crime and it's not happening because of prostitution. It's happening because some people are very evil and need to be controlled.
Posted by Anne Ardolino on 05/31/2009 @ 07:33PM PT
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For heavens sake; I AM against trafficking. 100%. The problem is people like you don't realize that the one simple act of legalizing prostitution for women who would do it of their own volition would seriously deplete trafficking if not end it altogether which is our goal right? Tell me how it would not if you can. Because if these women could find protection in the legal system, don't you think they would take it?
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 09:21PM PT
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To say that the Slate.com article somehow endorses child sexual slavery is a gross distortion. The article is about how, in the wake of the Craigslist Killer's apprehension, a social-morals group succeeded in shutting down that website's erotic services section: presumably on the theory that this would prevent anyone from killing a hooker ever again.
Far from endorsing prostitution, the article points out that Craigslist shutting its doors to prostitutes will not make them safer. In fact, the essay you find so objectionable argues that Craigslist was safer for prostitutes than other venues, and the virtual trail which it volunarily supplied to the police allowed them to catch the suspect more quickly.
The article reads: "The reason that Craigslist's erotic-services section no longer exists is that the site made sex work safer without intending to, and without any input from the cops."
For you to read this article, which shows concern for the safety of prostitutes, as an endorsement of child sexual slavery is a really appalling misrepresentation of Melissa Grant's argument. I don't know if you're twisting what she's saying deliberately, or if you honestly can't tell the difference, and I'm not sure which would be worse.
What is *with* this site? Can we have some normal, sane liberals, please?
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 07:18PM PT
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Amanda repeatedly mentions trafficked women. As in adults who are female. She isn't just talking about children.
And while having the ads in Craigslist makes it easier for the authorities to track killers, it also makes it easier for people to exploit people who have been forced into prostitution. It's not a fair exchange. My freedom in exchange for my killer being caught more easily? No thanks.
Oh, and I'm sorry, I can't be a normal, sane liberal for you. I've never voted that far to the right in my life. And I'm in my 40s. :D
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/31/2009 @ 08:11PM PT
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A twit. I think I'm flattered. I learn so much in these debates.
Since you're new here, and missed the earlier debate on a previous thread, I was forced into prostitution long before the internet, so Craigslist did not come into it. I don't know if they would have used it today or not.
My current status is disabled chronic welfare recipient. No lattes. No support group. Definitely not cool or hip. I will admit to being overeducated and too well read in some things, though.
You know, based on my experience, making it legal or illegal makes no difference when THEY are between you and the door. The police can't help you if you can't get to them. And sometimes they can't help you even if you can. It is astonishing how little the police can actually do. Putting the onus on the victim to ask for and get help is unrealistic give they are usually the most powerless people in the equation.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/01/2009 @ 08:23PM PT
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"The argument is that people who willingly choose sex work reduce demand for those who are forced into it."
No, because there are so few who willingly choose it. When demand exceeds supply, then either the price goes up or people get forced into it. People who purchase sex don't seem to be too concerned with consent, since people are getting forced into it.
It might be different if people who choose to do sex work were more common, but they are the exception. As a rule, prostitutes want out. 89% worldwide, according to one set of research (google "prostitution research" for that one).
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 07:46AM PT
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@ Anemone Cerridwen
I think you'd be surprised at the number--and the diversity--of women _and_ men who would go into sex work were it made legal.
Posted by Heather McClellan on 06/02/2009 @ 07:55AM PT
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Well, ya know, it is legal here (I'm in Canada), when it's indoors.
A lot of countries experiencing problems with trafficking allow individual prostitution in private, but not pimping or soliciting on the street. And yet the problems remain. Demand far exceeds willing supply.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 08:09AM PT
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"No, because there are so few who willingly choose it. When demand exceeds supply, then either the price goes up or people get forced into it."
And when the price goes up, more people choose to become hookers.
I can very easily turn your argument on its head: making prostitutes criminals has not stopped trafficking. Therefore, the criminalization of prostitution does not prevent, and possibly fosters, trafficking.
Posted by C C on 06/02/2009 @ 09:49AM PT
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Of course making PROSTITUTES criminals doesn't do anything. I'm in favour of decriminalizing prostitutes and criminalizing the people who pay for sex.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 02:32PM PT
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Well, that's something of a step forward, and it shows you're doing better than Kloer. But in practice, I'm not sure you can criminalize one end of a consensual cash transaction without criminalizing the other: I'd imagine it would run up against some legal principle or another (conspiracy to commit a crime, if nothing else).
You don't want prostitution to happen, and you value women's rights, so you've put yourself in this weird bind where you can't mentally place women who decide to be prostitutes. You need to make them victims, despite whatever protests they may make.
Where does this kind of thinking lead? To locking them up for their own good. The way you do that is usually by declaring them "sick," as at one time homosexuals were declared sick, and (in England) were forced to undergo sexual orientation reassignment therapy. Which is why Alan Turing killed himself, by the way.
Respecting someone's autonomy means accepting it when they make decisions you don't like.
Posted by C C on 06/02/2009 @ 05:11PM PT
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I guess you're new here. Amanda is also familiar with the Swedish model (criminalize the payer, decriminalize the prostitute), it's just that you can't repeat everything in every post. Check out some of the earlier posts on prostitution. I think one of them maxed out at over 400 comments before she locked it. Looks like we're going there on this one as well, after a slow start.
And I'm more concerned with those who don't choose prostitution, but get stuck in it and want to get out. Prostitution is not like homosexuality - it's not something you're born with. You want to compare something to homosexuality, go check out the autism blog.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 09:29PM PT
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Unfortunately, we have to close discussion threads once they reach a length that is beyond what the technology of the site can functionally support. However, I will try and revists popular topics so that discussion can continue on other threads.
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 06/03/2009 @ 06:34AM PT
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I think it's hilarious that people keep thinking that prostitution is between consenting adults. Most of the time, prostitutes are not consenting adults. And I personally see the ones who are as scabs.
You can't really separate prostitution and trafficking, because you can't tell the difference by looking, and often they go together. I think the current emphasis is on trafficking because it's easier to prosecute (catch them at the border) rather than because it's worse per se.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/31/2009 @ 07:19PM PT
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As *scabs?* Workers who break picket lines, sabotaging those who are holding out for higher pay?
So, in your mind there are three kinds of sex workers:
* Slaves. Hookers who have no choice. Can't get another job, can't strike.
* Scabs. All hookers in Germany, or the state of New Hampshire, where hooking is legal and pimping is not.
* Teamsters. Housewives and girlfriends, presumably, who can go on strike for better benefits as long as their men don't resort to scabs.
Such women are worse than prostitutes, in my opinion: in effect, they become Johns.
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 07:41PM PT
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I don't understand the third one. Sex in a personal relationship is qualitatively different from commercial sex, primarily because it is in a relationship that both partners choose after taking time to consider. (Even a cheap one night stand is considerably different from commercial sex.)
Also, I would not classify ALL hookers in Germany, or New Hampshire, or those who work legally indoors in Canada, as scabs. Most of them don't want to be there either. Certainly, most of them don't go around actively promoting it as an alternative lifestyle. There are only a few who are truly consenting adults, and most of them keep quiet about it. (And some of them have concerns about others who aren't as well off as them.)
Look, it is a basic principle that more than a token amount of money is coercive. As soon as you add money to the equation, it becomes something qualitatively different from what it would be if no money were involved.
And I really do not understand this hostility towards wives and girlfriends. It has been a long time since wives were chattel in most modern countries. They actually have human rights, now. Moreso if they have their own money (rather than depend on their partner's money). Money equals power. The power to choose. Most prostitutes do not have that power. That is why they are prostitutes. Because someone else with more money than they have has the power to make them so.
Or is that why some people defend prostitutes and denigrate wives and girlfriends? Because wives and girlfriends can afford to talk back now? Is that the problem?
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/31/2009 @ 08:03PM PT
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"I don't understand the third one. Sex in a personal relationship is qualitatively different from commercial sex, primarily because it is in a relationship that both partners choose after taking time to consider. (Even a cheap one night stand is considerably different from commercial sex.)"
How so? How would a person that chooses to provide sex as a service, not be able to take time to consider the situation? In what way would choice suddenly be stripped in such a situation where actual force was not used?
"Also, I would not classify ALL hookers in Germany, or New Hampshire, or those who work legally indoors in Canada, as scabs. Most of them don't want to be there either. Certainly, most of them don't go around actively promoting it as an alternative lifestyle. There are only a few who are truly consenting adults, and most of them keep quiet about it. (And some of them have concerns about others who aren't as well off as them.)"
Source?
"Look, it is a basic principle that more than a token amount of money is coercive. As soon as you add money to the equation, it becomes something qualitatively different from what it would be if no money were involved."
Excuse me? If by coercive you mean compelling, then perhaps, but that does nothing for your argument. If on the other hand you mean forceful then I'm afraid your argument holds no water at all. Unless you hold that any paid for manual labour is some form of slavery.
Posted by Anthony Machado on 05/31/2009 @ 08:39PM PT
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First of all, no one cares what you see the women who engage in the consensual selling of sex. That is between them and their God, if they believe in one. What I don't understand is how in the world you can say that you cannot tell the difference between prostitution and trafficking. If a woman is being trafficked, behind the sensual temptation and flirty attitude will be a look of fear. If you cannot see that you are blind.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 09:32PM PT
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"Sex in a personal relationship is qualitatively different from commercial sex, primarily because it is in a relationship that both partners choose after taking time to consider. (Even a cheap one night stand is considerably different from commercial sex.)"
So prostitution should be illegal because sex is somehow sacred?
Would you accept such an argument against homosexuality?
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 09:40PM PT
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Mike -
"If a woman is being trafficked, behind the sensual temptation and flirty attitude will be a look of fear. If you cannot see that you are blind."
In practice, that isn't true. Find a video on YouTube called "The Day My God Died."
People are just very adaptable; and when trafficked prostitutes are in compliance with what's expected of them, there's not a reason for them to feel fear. (Besides HIV and all that.)
Posted by C C on 05/31/2009 @ 09:46PM PT
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Conrad- I believe you are wrong my friend. Have you ever watched MSNBC's I have and I could tell from watching these girls on my tv screen that they live in a constant state of fear. You said when they are in compliance with what's expected of them there is no reason for them to feel fear. I say they feel fear 24/7. I don't know where you're from but I grew up in the big apple and I have seen this up close and personal. Trust me; I have never hired a prostitute but if I ever did; I could tell you within 5 minutes whether she was doing it of her own free will or not. All you need to do is look deep into her eyes my friend. That is the one place where no emotion can hide for long.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 09:52PM PT
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It's a cliche that people who pay for sex don't look at the prostitutes' faces. Two sources (plus what I've heard elsewhere): when I worked in for mineral exploration company, most of the women in the pin-ups in the core shack looked miserable, yet the men who put the pin-ups up didn't seem to notice. Norah Vincent in her book "Self-Made Man" also noted that the men she went to strip clubs with (disguised as a man) never looked at the strippers' faces.
You can't see if you don't look.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/01/2009 @ 08:16PM PT
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Anthony, you asked for sources. Here are two:
http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/prostitution_research/000116.html
http://ir.lib.sfu.ca/handle/1892/9250
The first is on the harm of prostitution both indoors and outdoors. The second is a study of high class prostitutes working indoors (some of whom were fine).
And I get my definitions of consent and coercion from psychology, heavily influenced by experiments like the Milgram experiments and the Stanford Prison experiment. Phillip Zimbardo has a good write up of the key experiments that went into the current code of ethics in his book "The Lucifer Effect". The APA code of ethics includes not offering coercive amounts of money to research subjects so it won't sway their judgement.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 08:26AM PT
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You said:
"Anthony, you asked for sources. Here are two:"
Thank you. Though I still have reservations considering the contradictions in the conclusions of both papers, that is neither here nor there.
"And I get my definitions of consent and coercion from psychology, heavily influenced by experiments like the Milgram experiments and the Stanford Prison experiment."
These are classical experiments in situational attributes of behavior, more specifically the effect of obedience to authority and how imposed authoritative and obedient rolls can drastically change an otherwise normal social status and personal disposition. They have little to do with coercion being attributed to monetary gain. In any case you still haven't described how the service of sex renders payment as "coercion" while payment for virtually any other service would simply be consent.
"The APA code of ethics includes not offering coercive amounts of money to research subjects so it won't sway their judgement."
What does this have to do with the argument provided? Those codes of ethics are made as a definitive line against academic dishonesty, in which it would be unethical to misrepresent data via outside influence. Within the context of this discussion it's relatively meaningless.
Posted by Anthony Machado on 06/02/2009 @ 02:41PM PT
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The code of ethics is about more than academic honesty. It's also to make sure that subjects don't get hurt in experiments (or exploited in therapy). When I was a psychology student, I saw a lot of concern over the dynamics of power in research situations.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 03:03PM PT
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"The code of ethics is about more than academic honesty. It's also to make sure that subjects don't get hurt in experiments (or exploited in therapy). When I was a psychology student, I saw a lot of concern over the dynamics of power in research situations."
The example you provided:
"The APA code of ethics includes not offering coercive amounts of money to research subjects so it won't sway their judgement."
is clearly about academic honesty, and is still absolutely irrelevant in this conversation. If you would like to provide another example I would be willing to listen. However, please do not conflate offering money as a means for swaying judgment in a psychological trial with offering money to sway judgment in an employment setting. They are clearly two very different things with obviously different ethical implications.
Posted by Anthony Machado on 06/02/2009 @ 03:48PM PT
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I don't see the difference. It's about not offering people more than token amounts of money to do something that might be harmful to them. If people really need the money, they may consent to do something that is not in their best interests, just in order to get the money they need. I don't have a specific real life example to give you, but can think of two fictional ones off the top of my head. There's "Indecent Proposal", the film where a woman consents to have sex for a million dollars and it nearly kills her marriage, and there's an episode of Laverne and Shirley where the two women are research subjects to earn enough money to attend an event, only to discover the experiments (doing without food or sleep) affect their behaviour at the event. The first fictional example is serious, the second totally humorous.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 09:39PM PT
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"I don't see the difference."
From what I can tell, it is the difference between misrepresenting oneself, or abusing one's position as an expert in psychology for personal or professional gain. This is opposed to, say, paying someone to do a job. Normally people wouldn't go around picking up your garbage. It is not considered unethical to offer payment in order to sway their judgment. Likewise, people wouldn't normally misrepresent data on a survey. However, it is completely unethical to offer them money to do so.
"It's about not offering people more than token amounts of money to do something that might be harmful to them. If people really need the money, they may consent to do something that is not in their best interests, just in order to get the money they need."
Many people are offered money to do jobs that hazardous. For example, textile mills, farmwork, police work, firefighting, etc. As long as the person is fully aware of the danger, and capable of making a rational decision based on that knowledge, offering those jobs is not generally considered unethical (although one could certainly make a case, that is still beyond the scope of legality).
I could certainly see an argument where the job in question would absolutely necessitate harm on the employee. However, given the second of the two papers you presented I'm not absolutely certain that is true in the case of prostitution.
"I don't have a specific real life example to give you, but can think of two fictional ones off the top of my head. There's 'Indecent Proposal', the film where a woman consents to have sex for a million dollars and it nearly kills her marriage, and there's an episode of Laverne and Shirley where the two women are research subjects to earn enough money to attend an event, only to discover the experiments (doing without food or sleep) affect their behaviour at the event. The first fictional example is serious, the second totally humorous."
Of course you'll understand if I'm a bit skeptical of these examples. Not to mention I haven't actually seen either one. I'm also not entirely convinced, given the descriptions, that anyone is actually at fault in either of those stories.
I mean, for sort of a silly example, lets consider the idea that the rich guy asks the wife to do something for one million dollars. Only, this time he asks her to operate a wheat thrasher. She does so but, horror of horrors, she loses an arm. Does this place blame on the rich guy? Perhaps, if he wasn't careful about safety and didn't clearly outline the risks associated, or perhaps even overemphasized the money while under-emphasizing the risk associated with the job. Might it place blame on the husband and wife? Again, perhaps if they were not careful, or overestimated their own ability to handle such a dangerous situation. However, if all safety considerations were taken into account on both parties and the outcome still occurred, could it not simply be that neither party is to blame? Could it be that the action itself is not inherently unethical, only dangerous?
Posted by Anthony Machado on 06/02/2009 @ 11:01PM PT
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How many people in mainstream society actually have to move somewhere to take a job they don't like because that's all they feel they can do?
Personally I have felt like a Prostitute in many situations where I had to sell myself in an interview, present myself to do a repetitive job that gave me little satisfaction.
Is a Barbie gorgeous woman with nothing more than good looks not a Prostitute also if she holds out for a Rich man to put the biggest Diamond on her finger or the Costliest vehicle at her disposal?
I see Religion all over this topic. The fact that women can enjoy sex over and over again while a man is 'spent' with just one engagement etc. Like the 'fact' that a man with many conquest is a Stud and the woman with many lovers is a Whore'?
Excellent discussion.
Posted by William Rios on 05/31/2009 @ 07:52PM PT
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You need to try it before you compare it to your own experiences.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 05/31/2009 @ 08:07PM PT
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I agree on the religion comment. We're back to the people vs Larry Flynt again. Will these intolerant lunatics never go away? There is a huge difference between something that is deemed to be wrong by society, and an all out crime, such as forcing women or young girls to perform sexual acts for money and They don't even see the money. The girls are working for free at a profession they did not choose. That is slavery and it is a crime. A woman over the age of 18, Consensually selling sex for money that she keeps or willingly splits with a partner, should not be a crime. This is the confusion that is causing all women/girls to be subject to the pain, abuse, threats, and the heartbreak of being FORCED into this profession against their will because they have no where to turn. They will not go to the police for fear they will be arrested for prostitution. If consensual prostitution were Not illegal, that fear would be removed and there would be more people reporting trafficking activities.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 05/31/2009 @ 09:46PM PT
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It is currently pretty much impossible to seperate prostitution from trafficing. The point of the "oldest profession in the world" argument is that ultimately people will find a way to buy sex--just as they will find a way to buy drugs--so rather than prohibit the practice and drive it underground, we should bring it under the scrutiny and protection of the law.
One might also suggest a tax, the revenue from which could be used for anti-trafficing enforcement, support and protections for victims of sexual abuse, and job training for those already in the industry.
Posted by Alex Edelman on 05/31/2009 @ 08:18PM PT
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So basically what you're saying is that you didn't actually read the Slate.com article you're attacking? That you took one sentence from there out of context and that you can't be bothered to cite actual instances of the "oldest profession" being used as an excuse against anti-trafficking solutions?
Posted by Anca Scaesteanu on 05/31/2009 @ 08:26PM PT
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As with all victimless crimes, prostitution should be decriminalized. Efforts to prevent prostitution should involve meeting physical and emotional needs.
To the guy who thinks paying for sex is becoming less common, perhaps in the US. For certain in a lot of communities. I know some prostitutes though and it's pretty easy for them to find business.
Posted by Daniel Kelley on 06/01/2009 @ 12:56AM PT
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With all that our politicians’ get away with prostitution pails in comparison, legalize it, tax it, and give them the same health care as our congress and senate!
'It has been said that politics is the second oldest profession. I have learned that it bears a striking resemblance to the first.' - Ronald Reagan
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/01/2009 @ 04:38AM PT
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We need more information here. Is prostitution becoming more or less common? I have no idea. How closely is prostitution connected to trafficking? Again, we don't know. Does legalization help? Well, first tell me where prostitution is really legal now -- and I mean in enforcement terms, not what the law says. It's illegal in Las Vegas. It's also illegal in San Francisco, L.A., New York, New Orleans, and Miami, and I daresay you wouldn't have to look hard to find brothels and call girl services flourishing, long term, pretty much in plain sight, in any of those cities and a good many more. And then, as a couple of other posters have noted, the definition of prostitution is unclear. Paying a stranger for sex clearly is prostitution. But bargaining occurs even within marriage.
Breathes there a man with soul so dead
Who never to his wife hath said,
"I'll buy you those earrings, now please come to bed" ?
Some marriages appear to be mostly long-term, religiously sanctioned sex-for-money arrangements.
It is also unclear that prostitution, even without coercion, is a victimless crime. Ask Alexandra DuPre, a young woman whose participation in a high-priced call girl service appears to have been entirely voluntary, who said she was quitting the business after seeing how much damage Elliot Spitzer's engaging her services had done to his family.
So, again echoing several prior posts, let's not get everything confused by our moral views. I'll assume we all agree that trafficking is bad. What policies about prostitution would be most effective in reducing trafficking? How can we obtain enough information to answer that question?
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/01/2009 @ 05:03AM PT
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"It is also unclear that prostitution, even without coercion, is a victimless crime. Ask Alexandra DuPre, a young woman whose participation in a high-priced call girl service appears to have been entirely voluntary, who said she was quitting the business after seeing how much damage Elliot Spitzer's engaging her services had done to his family."
It's not legally a crime with a victim, but you can't outlaw every stupid thing a man can do to ruin his relationship with his family. This kind of thing is on Elliot Spitzer, on his conscience and it's something that'll bite him on the ass later. If he wants to go behind his wife's back and cheat on her, whether for free or pay, that's his responsibility, and his karma.
For an activity to have a victim, it has to infringe on a persons life, liberty or property. Having sex and charging for the service deprives someone of neither. Human trafficking deprives someone of all three, and we have crimes on the books for that: Kidnapping and wrongful imprisonment. If you add sex to the mix, then you have multiple counts of rape. This is where true victimhood happens.
So you can see there there is a pretty wide berth between a moron who cheats on his wife, and someone who kidnaps a human being and forces them into activities they don't want to do,
Posted by Mike Conway on 06/01/2009 @ 07:19AM PT
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Damage Done: Part of the damage done is due to our really sex negative culture and a lack of openness and honesty within his relationship with his wife. Prostitution is a demonized profession, and not until this stigma is relived or until real relationship skills and sexual responsibility are taught to Americans can this really be alleviated. Prostitution did not ruin his marriage societal sex-negativity and a lack of honesty within the relationship; or barring the previous, perhaps just the fact that the world now knows and has judged him.
Infidelity: Infidelity is not the problem of the sex worker. It is not the job of a sex worker to be a relationship counselor, therapist, or fidelity checker. If someone comes to a sex worker (without the partners' knowledge and consent) then that is a symbol that either there are unresolved issues with themselves, their relationship, or that they have an open relationship. In either case it is not an issue with sex work as a profession, it is an issue with the relationship and very strongly - our sex negative culture with which there is a heavy stigma placed upon sexually liberated people, and those who take care of their sexual desires in a non-violent and mutually beneficial arrangement.
Getting Out: I'll bet the real reason why she is getting out is because, now due to her notoriety she is able to get more lucrative work - book, movie, talk shows, etc. You cannot tell me that prostitutes are wholely ignorant to the fact that married men come to them and the effect that this mave have on their relationship if their partner does not know.
Trafficking: And yes there are laws against rape, trafficking, and so on. They just need to be really enforced and pursued. Prostitutes need to be treated as a victim and not as a criminal.
Posted by James O'Neill on 06/01/2009 @ 07:44AM PT
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While I certainly agree that child, or any other trafficking is bad (saw a moive, Taken, about it), I don't think that all prostitution is bad. I cite my time spent in Japan, while in the navy, for 4 years.
They have a very different culture, and are very open about such things as sex. For example, I walked into a couple arcades just a short ways from base, and there were so video games that were like strip-poker. And ya know what? The crime rate there is a helluva lot lower than in here. People would much rather make love than war!
Posted by Ed Star on 06/01/2009 @ 05:30AM PT
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The strongest correlation between trafficking and prostitution is the perversion. Legalizing prostitution would not end human trafficking, but would make it much easier to spot and stop. Many using prostitution for perversion would rather stay with the illegal no-remorse danger of human trafficking, especially of children. Even the relatively small amount of law enforcement now wasted on prostitution would be a very helpful addition in the fight against human trafficking.
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/01/2009 @ 06:59AM PT
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Human trafficking has nothing to do with prositution. It is nothing more than a bullshit tactic to link the two together. If you can make people think human trafficking when prostitution is mentioned it is much easier to win this misguided moral argument.
Why don't you try and win the prostitution argument using facts regarding prostitution not human trafficking. They are two entirely different things. Unformatunately some prostitutes are victims of human trafficking. Many prostitutes have nothing at all to do with human trafficking and are participating in the act either because they have no better option or they honestly enjoy thier work and the compensation they recieve. In the U.S. that likely covers most prostitutes.
All of those in favor of legalized, regulated prostitution NEVER LET THESEE PEOPLE PAINT PROSTITUTION AS HUMAN TRAFFICKING. THEY CAN"T WIN THE ARGUMENT TALKING ABOUT THE FACTS OF PROSTITUTION, SO THEY TRY AND TAINT IT WITH SOMETHING THAT DISGUSTS EVERYONE. IF YOU DON'T CHALLENGE IT AT EVERTY OCCURANcE THEY WILL SUCCEED.
Posted by X otix on 06/01/2009 @ 10:41AM PT
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Otix,
I beleive that your statement that most women in prostituion in the U.S. are "honestly enjoy their work and are happy with the compensation they receive" is incorrect. I would be happy to read any supportive information you have for that statement.
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 06/02/2009 @ 06:17AM PT
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The entire paragraph is this.
"Many prostitutes have nothing at all to do with human trafficking and are participating in the act either because they have no better option or they honestly enjoy thier work and the compensation they recieve. In the U.S. that likely covers most prostitutes.
You used half of a sentence to misrepresent what I said completely out of context. This is another example of your bullshit tactics.
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 12:01PM PT
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Yes, she misquoted you. But you still said that "many prostitutes have nothing at all to do with human trafficking". Do you have documentation for that?
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 02:56PM PT
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Look, if someone is a crack whore and they whore themselves for thier drug of choice they are not a slave. They are offering a service to get something they want. That's not slavery or human trafficking that is called working for something that you want.
Posted by X otix on 06/04/2009 @ 07:32AM PT
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Human traficking is to prostitution as Slavery is to unskilled labor. So lets outlaw unskilled labor jobs cause there can be proven to be a link between unskilled labor and slavery.
Posted by X otix on 06/01/2009 @ 11:56AM PT
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X otix, a link? You must be able to see the connection or as you call it the link. No matter how simplified the solution can be explained you will not understand it if you didn’t understand the problem to begin with. I gave you the correlation;
The strongest correlation between trafficking and prostitution is the perversion. Legalizing prostitution would not end human trafficking, but would make it much easier to spot and stop. Many using prostitution for perversion would rather stay with the illegal no-remorse danger of human trafficking, especially of children. Even the relatively small amount of law enforcement now wasted on prostitution would be a very helpful addition in the fight against human trafficking.
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/01/2009 @ 12:29PM PT
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Your statement only strengthens my point.
Your "correlation" is the same as saying. Legal driving does not end drunk driving in fact it makes it worse because when you allow driving, there will be so many people on the road that you can't tell who is drunnk and who is not. Therefore, driving should be illegal that way if your on the road in a car the polics can know that you are drunk.
That sounds pretty idiotic to me
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 08:16AM PT
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What is idiotic is trying to make a valid argument when “your” premise makes no logical sense and can not therefore be proven. But people like you will just continue wasting precious time, money and lives trying too. When you see something has NOT worked for fricken decades just give it up already!
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/02/2009 @ 08:37AM PT
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My premis.
Drunk driving is wrong and having other drivers on the raod makes it difficult to tell the difference between happy sober drivers and drunk drivers.
Your premise:
Prostitution is wrong and making prostitution legal would make it harder to tell the difference between legal prostitutes and enslaved sex workers.
There is no difference in premises there just in subject matter. the only real difference is your misguided morals blinding you from seeing the idiocy of your position. You obviously clearly see the idiocy hen the subject is changed to something that doesnt offend YOUR morals as much.
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 10:11AM PT
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CORRECTION FOR ABOVE POST:
My premis.
Drunk driving is wrong and having other drivers on the raod makes it difficult to tell the difference between happy sober drivers and drunk drivers.
Your premise:
HUMAN TRAFFICKING is wrong and making prostitution legal would make it harder to tell the difference between legal prostitutes and enslaved sex workers.
The falicy here is that Drunk driving is an inherant part of driving. Obviously it is not. The same goes for human trafficking and prostitution they are two different things. Sometimes those engaged in prostitution are victims of human trafficking just as sometimes drivers are also drunk. So what is the answer. Your answer in terms of prositution is to make the whole thing illegal, so why is it different to say that all driving should be illegal to stop drunk driving?
There is no difference in premises there just in subject matter. the only real difference is your misguided morals blinding you from seeing the idiocy of your position. You obviously clearly see the idiocy hen the subject is changed to something that doesnt offend YOUR morals as much.
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 10:24AM PT
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Even with your still wrong correction you are still wrong in the same manner as above, you are not taking the time to understand what I said or you just do not want to because your mind is made up (and made up in stone).
How in the world could you possilbly interpret this: The strongest correlation between trafficking and prostitution is the perversion. Legalizing prostitution would not end human trafficking, but would make it much easier to spot and stop. Many using prostitution for perversion would rather stay with the illegal no-remorse danger of human trafficking, especially of children. Even the relatively small amount of law enforcement now wasted on prostitution would be a very helpful addition in the fight against human trafficking.
AS THIS:
“Your premise:
Prostitution is wrong and making prostitution legal would make it harder to tell the difference between legal prostitutes and enslaved sex workers.
There is no difference in premises there just in subject matter. the only real difference is your misguided morals blinding you from seeing the idiocy of your position. You obviously clearly see the idiocy hen the subject is changed to something that doesnt offend YOUR morals as much.”
First off I did not say prostitution is wrong. I am a roman catholic and I know prostitution should be made legal. AGAIN: The strongest correlation between trafficking and prostitution is the perversion. Legalizing prostitution would not end human trafficking, but would make it much easier to spot and stop. Many using prostitution for perversion would rather stay with the illegal no-remorse danger of human trafficking, especially of children. Even the relatively small amount of law enforcement now wasted on prostitution would be a very helpful addition in the fight against human trafficking.
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/02/2009 @ 11:05AM PT
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lol yeah I misinterpreted something.. your right lol we are both arguing the same point. my appologies.
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 11:40AM PT
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Prostitution needs to be stopped. All human rights abuse needs to be stopped. It is very disrespectful to us all as human beings. We should all love each other and care about one another. We should not let lust, power, or greed get the best of us. I am retired from the military and I have seen enough pain and disgrace all over this whole world. It is time for all of us to come together as a whole regardless of race, religion, or gender and start caring for one another. The human race will become extinct one day and it will be our faults if we do not learn to respect and love each other. We are suppose to be the smartest of all the animal kingdom. But are we? We hate and ravish each other and Mother Nature. It is time we stop!!!
Posted by Belinda Roberts on 06/01/2009 @ 12:10PM PT
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Belinda I totally agree with you, but no one can or will ever be able to stop or change basic human instinct. As a disabled female veteran your age; my military service has taught me that presently if prostitution was available for our troops in the Middle East the number of rapes occurring to our military women would drastically be decreased.
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/01/2009 @ 12:47PM PT
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pat smith:
what do you mean, those rapists simply couldn't help their "basic instinct" because there were no prostitutes around? that's quite a statement. human beings are sexual, and yet most will not resort to rape or paying for sex-
Posted by Tangerine Tangerine on 06/01/2009 @ 01:14PM PT
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Yes it is quite a statement when taken out of context. Notice I said the number of rapes (presently) occurring would be drastically decreased. Not that the rapes would all stop, but that the number of rapes occurring would drastically decrease.
Posted by Pat Smith on 06/01/2009 @ 01:40PM PT
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pat smith
But your theory completely relies on something taken out of contest. Rape is not a result of lack of sex. It's more complex than that- It's not just that you are oversimplifying, but your diagnose is wrong.
Posted by Tangerine Tangerine on 06/02/2009 @ 10:00AM PT
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No; prostitution doesn't need to be stopped. FORCED prostitution ie; trafficking and slavery, needs to be stopped. There IS a difference. Wake up people.
Posted by Mike Nichols on 06/02/2009 @ 11:55AM PT
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I am retired military also, but since I didnt think that made me qualified to state my opinion on this I left that part out. Thank you for your service. It's not relavant to the topic though.
Posted by X otix on 06/01/2009 @ 12:12PM PT
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Dear Ms. Amanda Kloer, I'm so glad that still exist passionate people fighting for human rights and dignity! But, if passion is the salt of the life, dogmatic fundamentalism is the tomb of every just cause. Personally I found that mixing up human trafficking, slavery, child abuse with prostitution and glamor /sex industry is plain, misleading and dangerous fundamentalism.
The first groups of activities are criminal activities and always left victimes behind themself. The last, provided certain safeguards, are merely commercial activities, objectionable only once you have chosen to impose a peculiar system of morality, and they live no unwilling victims behind, provided the involved people are adult, reasonably free, responsible for their choice, supported in their civil rights, basic opportunity and welfare as all the other citizens of the society.
Mixing those groups will push the second group in the illegality, evading controls and rising the prices, thus creating better opportunity for criminal organizations which will be able to exploit pauperized people who, having also lost the protection of law enforcement, are "de facto" slaves.
To look to a further horizon, to how prohibitionism (remember the years '20) enable criminality to control state structures and in the end the nations states (as in recent years in the Balkans) see F. Strazzari, Notte Balcanica, guerre, crimine, stati falliti alle soglie dell'Europa, Ed. Il Mulino, Bologna 2008, see in particular chapt, I , chapt.III,par, 6).
To see the connection of feminism and sexual behavior with violence and war see M. Andregg, On the causes of war, Ground zero Minnesota, St. Paul, 1999 National peace writing Award (download avaible on http://www.gzmn.org/otcw.pdf) part III (How to Overcame the War and Survive), Chapter 33 (The Feminist Revolt and Masculinity).
Posted by Alessandro Argentini on 06/01/2009 @ 12:37PM PT
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This discussion is still much more heat than light, much f it about the morality or immorality of prostitution. Once again: what do we KNOW about the link between prostitution and human trafficking, and about how the legal / enforcement status of prostitution affects trafficking? My first guess is that legalizing and regulating prostitution while cracking down on trafficking might be the best course, partly because legal prostitution businesses would risk losing their licenses if they participated in trafficking -- but this is, as I said, a guess. I can see the potential for this proposal to get mired down in a lot of controversy that would end up hurting the anti-trafficking effort. Amanda, do you want to suggest any actions?
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/01/2009 @ 01:02PM PT
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Doug, Somewhere above I post a link to a strategy paper based on research of social conditions in Eastern Europe, where a direct relationship between institutionalised children and prostitution has been long understood. Their own children have a high probability of becoming institutionalised in turn and they offer the raw material for both local prostitution and overseas trafficking.
We must make a clear distinction here, such that the full picture of supply and demand is understood. This is a far wider context than the interpretation given and for a site promoting social enterprise, quite shocking in the general lack of understanding of world issues.
The paper below describing the scale of the problem, has been taken seriously by government who have since responded by applying several of the recommendations therein.
http://www.p-ced.com/projects/ukraine/national/
Posted by Jeff Mowatt on 06/01/2009 @ 01:27PM PT
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Hi Doug,
I would not suggest legalizing prostitution as a means to reduce human trafficking. Law enforcement would have a significantly more difficult time identifying trafficking victims in a legal brothel than an illegal one, especailly if those victims have been coached to lie and say they are happy and want to be in the brothel. Keeping prostitution illegal gives law enforcement important tools to identify and remove trafficking victims from exploitative situations.
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 06/02/2009 @ 06:10AM PT
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I think maybe adult women should have freedom of choice in this matter. Slavery, including any kind of work slavery in it's many manifestions should be stopped, adult or child. I tend to go with the sex-positive feminists on this one and say that moral restriction of their freedom is not a form of subjugation also.
Posted by Charles Gillard on 06/01/2009 @ 02:14PM PT
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I meant to say that moral restriction of their freedomn IS a form of subjugation also.
Posted by Charles Gillard on 06/01/2009 @ 02:16PM PT
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I don't think anyone CAN seperate morals from laws. I haven't come across an amoral law (one that didn't spring from a moral viewpoint) yet. Is there one?
You cannot argue this debate from your head alone. Here our Indigenous nations would rather feign studipity than impart wisom to the unconscious and I suggest that American First Nations are no different. Things move in cycles. The guy who dumps on people like Amanda for her stand might one day need her help. Its an impartial universe we Westerners are only just coming to grips with. Yes, free speech, you'll be given what you ask for. You want prosititution? You will experience it from all sides.
I can only imagine what goes through the mind of a trafficked prostitute reading some of this "wish list". I've been reading Steve Biddulph's book "Manhood - A book about setting men free" and he talks about using sex as a means to not only demean yourself, but also women in general. One sentence stands out ... "Once you have MADE LOVE, then just having sex will never do." Sex is a whole-person thing, prostitution makes it a transaction between a penis and a vagina, and isn't that the whole agenda of trafficking?
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/01/2009 @ 07:04PM PT
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Mike Agri made the easiest and most socialiy intelligent comment. Prostitution is the answer to many problems of desire that will never be answered by the fundimentalists. His suggestion could also be applied to The War on Drugs.
There is no amendment to the Constitution that is in the way of treating these two phisical desires as sinful. Only the hate that is expressed by those who want to be superior but are truly inferior, proven by their hate. Like the pro-life? gunman that killed a doctor because he performed abortions according to a law approved by the Supreme Court, when we had a minoity of fundamentalists, read taliban, on it.
If you still hate to recognize that Mike is right, consider how much in tax would then pour into government to reduce the taxes you now pay. Harmon Chamberlin h.e.chamberlin@sbcglobsl.net
Posted by Harmon Chamberlin on 06/01/2009 @ 10:26PM PT
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*Mike Agri made the easiest and most socially intelligent comment. Prostitution is the answer to many problems of desire that will never be answered by the fundamentalists.*
I had to go way back to find this particular Mike, and your statement alludes to an "answer" to the "problem" of desire. I say address the problem. I agree fundamentalists can't do it for anyone, it only comes with maturity and maybe some life experiences.
*Like the pro-life? gunman that killed a doctor because he performed abortions ....... (and then) If you still hate to recognise that Mike is right, ..... *
This is a guy in favour of the death penalty for "problems of desire". What's it going to take to grow up? Suggested reading is the legend of the White Buffalo Calf Woman. Its old, very old.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/01/2009 @ 11:54PM PT
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"It's a cliche that people who pay for sex don't look at the prostitutes' faces."
It's not a cliche, it's incorrect. Most of the comments on this list draw on personal feelings, assumptions, stereotypes and ideologically driven "research" rather than the diverse accounts of sex workers, migrants and victims of trafficking, and serious, ethically-grounded, rigorously conducted academic research. One UK example of this is
http://www.londonmet.ac.uk/research-units/iset/projects/esrc-migrant-workers.cfm
I've been a hooker for 10 years, I have long term relationships with many of my clients and even the people who come to see me only once interact with me in a way that is generally intimate and sincere - they can only get the experience they want by seeing me.
People like Amanda Kloer, on the other hand, and many of the people on this list, will continue to maintain that I do not exist, or, perhaps, grudgingly, that maybe I do exist, but I don't really count, however often I, or people like me, speak.
Those who do not see me, and refuse to see people like me are part of the problem. You silence, objectify, marginalise and oppress us - Amanda Kloer is doing this very successfully.
But despite that success, I continue to believe that human rights are for everyone - even women like me - and we can work towards a world that treats everyone in the sex industry, native and migrant, by choice, circumstance or coercion, with respect - as if we are all human beings, not just those of us you can describe as victims. The readers of this column can choose to be part of that - or continue to be part of the problem by seeking simplistic solutions that ignore reality.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 03:47AM PT
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"It's a cliche that people who pay for sex don't look at the prostitutes' faces."
It's not a cliche, it's incorrect. Most of the comments on this list draw on personal feelings, assumptions, stereotypes and ideologically driven "research" rather than the diverse accounts of sex workers, migrants and victims of trafficking, and serious, ethically-grounded, rigorously conducted academic research. One UK example of this is
http://www.londonmet.ac.uk/research-units/iset/projects/esrc-migrant-workers.cfm
I've been a hooker for 10 years, I have long term relationships with many of my clients and even the people who come to see me only once interact with me in a way that is generally intimate and sincere - they can only get the experience they want by seeing me.
People like Amanda Kloer, on the other hand, and many of the people on this list, will continue to maintain that I do not exist, or, perhaps, grudgingly, that maybe I do exist, but I don't really count, however often I, or people like me, speak.
Those who do not see me, and refuse to see people like me are part of the problem. You silence, objectify, marginalise and oppress us - Amanda Kloer is doing this very successfully.
But despite that success, I continue to believe that human rights are for everyone - even women like me - and we can work towards a world that treats everyone in the sex industry, native and migrant, by choice, circumstance or coercion, with respect - as if we are all human beings, not just those of us you can describe as victims. The readers of this column can choose to be part of that - or continue to be part of the problem by seeking simplistic solutions that ignore reality.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 03:47AM PT
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Hi Catherine,
You are right that human rights are for everyone. You will find many previous and future posts on this blog where I explore issues regarding prostitution and human trafficking with people who support the legalization and with women who are currently engaged in the commercial sex industry at some level. The goal of engaging in these conversations is not to silense or marginalize, but rather to identify the best way to address the problems which do exist in the commercial sex industry- violence, abuse, rape, and trafficking.
This post was not criticizing people the stance that legalizing and regulating the commercial sex industry will improve the lives of women and girls. That is another debate. This post was criticizing the position that there is no hope for the women and girls who are in the commercial sex industry against their wills, and there is no hope for us to change things in the industry.
Your voice, your experience, and your opinion expressed respectfully will always be welcome here, even if I disagree with your views. I hope you will continue to engage in this important debate.
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 06/02/2009 @ 06:00AM PT
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You support Catherine's human rights, you want her voice to be heard in this conversation, you respect her experience, and you think police should arrest her:
"Keeping prostitution illegal gives law enforcement important tools to identify and remove trafficking victims from exploitative situations."
Posted by C C on 06/02/2009 @ 09:13AM PT
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Catherine; WOW!! Well put. I couldn't have made a better argument. Btw; How IS the sex trafficking trade there in Canada? Non-existent if my suspicions are correct. Someone made the ridiculous argument that there are not enough willing participants to fill the demand. Maybe if it were legal; there would be.
I would also like to know why my post was deleted that contained a link to some Beautiful, Happy, Healthy, Well Paid Ecsorts in AtLanta Ga. Maybe because they are the Perfect rebuttal to Amanda's argument for keeping prostitution illegal? Hmmmm???
Posted by Mike Nichols on 06/02/2009 @ 11:51AM PT
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In Canada, we do have trafficking. We have people being trafficked in from Asia in Vancouver. I don't know how many. There was a raid on one or more massage parlours a while back and some "johns" were arrested as well as traffickers. We had people being trafficked in from Eastern Europe a while back on exotic dancer visas - I think there was a scandal there. Also, people are trafficked in from Native reserves. The Downtown Eastside in Vancouver is considered to be one of the worst if not the worst ghetto in North America, and there is a lot of survival sex work there. (And a lot of murders and disappearances.) I have no idea what the proportion of consenting adults versus others is in Canada. I don't think anyone really does.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 02:46PM PT
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Off course human rights are for everyone. The impartial universe treats every human aspiration with respect. Let me just recall a post on this very issue of Human Rights that came up through the Genocide cause. A cannibalistic society will only give the issue of the merits of cannibalism due consideration through that conflicted individual whose number happens to be up on the menu. So far you might have had success. You are not conflicted. How do you intend to stay that way? Maybe you can take out insurance. Legalize prostitution so you can claim for loss or damage, fire, flood, accident and rape?
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 04:40AM PT
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It's really pointless to continue to launch debates where people come from a wildly differing premise. Prostitution will seem a valid option for those for whom it is just fine right now. It won't be fine for me anytime soon. I also have had 10 years of it in a slightly milder, yet equally potent form. I had generational conditioning that told me the man is always right, support the man to build the health of the family. Rubbish. What that gave me was a parasitical relationship, my family for most of my energy and all of my money. Maybe we should all be talking about the definition of a parasitical relationship. There isn't any insurance against that except changing who I was. I get it now, I won't be willingly choosing another one. I am where the buck stops.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 05:47AM PT
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BTW my ex looked into my eyes most days.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 05:58AM PT
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Amanda, you repeatedly conflate adult sex work with the sale of sex by those underage (“The pervasiveness of prostitution in history does not make the 14-year-old on the streets of Las Vegas any less exploited”).
You consistently conflate “problems which do exist in the commercial sex industry” with the sex industry itself: your headline "It’s the oldest profession" refers to prostitution, not trafficking.
You make the entirely subjective judgement “we know that prostitution … is harmful to women and girls” and your phraseology “WE know” ignores – effectively silences - the voices of many in the sex industry themselves who say contradict your _individual_ belief.
People in the sex industry can tell the difference between safe, fair and honest working environments and those who coerce, exploit and abuse us; between those who pay us for sexual services clearly negotiated and those who take advantage of our criminalisation and social exclusion to rape, rob or assault us. Broadly drafted legislation allows abuses to flourish because they are poorly targeted.
None of the problems you refer to – “violence, abuse, rape, and trafficking” - are unique to the sex industry, and they will be solved only when people in the sex industry are treated like human beings deserving of respect, and all of us have the freedom to make choices for ourselves.
Your campaigns do not support this freedom. You mention the discredited systems of legalisation. Sex workers’ rights advocates campaign against legalisation and criminalisation both – both inevitably create two tier systems marginalising the most vulnerable, and enforce the treat of people who sell sex as “other”, enshrining in law and regulation our social exclusion.
Until you recognise the campaign for _all_ sex workers’ rights, you will continue to be part of the problem.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 06:26AM PT
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Catherine, how are we supposed to recognize all sex workers' rights? People who are trafficked are not in a position to help themselves - they generally need rescuing. People who are not trafficked supposedly do not need help, or can presumably access services when they need them. So the ones who are getting help are the ones who don't need it so much, and those who are the most powerless get the least support. It's like child abuse in a way - outside intervention is needed (and so often doesn't happen). Outsiders need to be able to tell when someone is being abused. How are they supposed to be able to do this? So far it seems that most people just see what they expect to see.
Practical suggestions welcome.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 07:57AM PT
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Dear Catherine,
You said, "Sex workers’ rights advocates campaign against legalisation and criminalisation both – both inevitably create two tier systems marginalising the most vulnerable, and enforce the treat of people who sell sex as “other”, enshrining in law and regulation our social exclusion."
Could you explain what you mean, or direct me to a site where that position is more fully explained. I don't understand, and would rather read a more detailed explanation than to state my misapprehensions.
Thanks.
Posted by Joseph P. Quinn on 06/02/2009 @ 07:37AM PT
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I am curious as well.
Posted by James O'Neill on 06/02/2009 @ 07:45AM PT
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www.spreadmagazine.org
Posted by Deborah May on 06/02/2009 @ 03:43PM PT
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Because you can't consistently say both that prostitution should be illegal and that prostitutes all are victims. If prostitution is a crime, then prostitutes are criminals.
Posted by C C on 06/02/2009 @ 09:22AM PT
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“Well, ya know, it is legal here (I'm in Canada), when it's indoors.
A lot of countries experiencing problems with trafficking allow individual prostitution in private, but not pimping or soliciting on the street. And yet the problems remain.”
This is actually a perfect illustration of how legalisation infringes sex workers’ human rights and assists traffickers. For a start, allowing people only to work in isolation (“individual prostitution in private”) deprives us of a right so basic it’s part of the UN Declaration of Human Rights - Article 20, section 1: ”Everyone has the right to freedom of peaceful assembly and association.”
Second, forcing people to work completely separately from one another creates ideal conditions for traffickers to keep their victims isolated, misinformed about their legal situation (often women are told they themselves are breaking the law, as of course, they are in many countries) and makes traffickers safer as an opportunity for someone to report anxieties about trafficking is lost. Yes, there are many reports of trafficking from purchasers of sexual services, but often this takes place over time as a relationship of trust is built so the victim of trafficking feels able to disclose. But if women are working together in brothels, there is more opportunity for other sex workers to see how someone is behaving when she is “off stage” and explore her circumstances. And, of course, in a country like Canada, where only “individual prostitution in private” is legal, reporting anxieties to the authorities may require you to implicate yourself in a crime – commonsense can see this is a disincentive to report – again, increasing the ease with which traffickers can operate.
“Demand far exceeds willing supply.”
What evidence do you have for this statement? There’s no evidence that prostitution is a demand driven market, and certainly in the UK there is evidence that it is not.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 09:27AM PT
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Joseph P. Quinn, James O'Neill and any other readers who may have similar curiosity
hi guys
I don’t know of a “one-stop shop”site that elucidates the harmful consequences of the various forms of “legalised” prostitution – if on reflection a source occurs to me, or I can find one, I’ll post details here.
Cxx
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 09:34AM PT
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Dear Catherine,
After reading your post which disapproves of both legalization and criminalization of prostitution, I assume that you believe that prostitution should enjoy the same status as other social activities such as dinner parties or book discussion groups. One makes no laws for them, neither does one tax them.
Would this assumption be accurate?
Posted by Joseph P. Quinn on 06/02/2009 @ 02:32PM PT
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“As a rule, prostitutes want out. 89% worldwide, according to one set of research (google "prostitution research" for that one).”
prostitutionresearch.com seems to be basically a mouthpiece for Melissa Farley, who’s seen as fairly disreputable academically (19 academics put their names to a paper criticising the ethics, methodology and analysis of a piece of research she was involved with in Glasgow, Scotland; see also
http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/ElizabethsBlog/Melissa-Farley-in-Scotland)
In contrast, Charlotte Seib finds “In general, it appears that the majority of sex workers enjoyed at least as much job satisfaction as women working in other occupations. Varying levels of job satisfaction in different sectors of the sex industry will be discussed in relation to characteristics of the workplace and the associated hazards, especially risk of violence.”
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=64277
Tamara O'Doherty hears that “off-street sex work can be safe”: 63% of women who participated in Off-Street Commercial Sex: An Exploratory Study, reported they had never experienced violent behaviour. (In contrast 40% of UK nurses report they have been harassed or assaulted in the last 12 months.)
Basil Donovan discovers that decriminalisation improves health and working conditions for sex workers, while legalisation harms us.
http://www.news.com.au/heraldsun/story/0,21985,24348679-5005961,00.html
Hilary Kinnell examines violence against sex workers and shows it is increased by criminalisation “We know that criminal gangs target brothels due to our criminalisation, it has been referred to during robberies. ‘What you gonna do, call the police – they’ll just arrest you.’”(Violence and Sex Work in Britain.)
and Nick Mai listens to accounts from migrants in the sex industry, both voluntary and trafficked, and hears
# mmigration status is by far the single most important factor restricting interviewees' ability to exercise their rights in their professional and private lives.
# Working in the sex industry is often a way for migrants, especially if undocumented or partially documented, to avoid the unrewarding and sometimes exploitative conditions they meet in the low skilled jobs available to them, such as: waiting in restaurants and bars, cleaning, food packaging etc.
# Working in the sex industry can also be a way to minimise the risk of being subject to deportation, when undocumented
# By working in the sex industry, many migrants are able to maintain dignified living standards in the UK while dramatically improving the living conditions of their families in the country of origin.
# The stigmatisation of sex work was the main problem interviewees experienced while working in the sex industry, as most felt they could not be open about their work with their partners, families and friends, both in the UK and at home.
# Many underlined that the combination of the stigmatisation of sex work and lack of documentation made them more vulnerable to violence and abuse from customers, which is an exception to relations usually characterised by mutual consent and respect.
# All interviewees thought that their rights could be more asserted and their vulnerability reduced by legalising rather that criminalising sex work and the people involved and by making it easier for all migrants to become and remain documented.
# Nearly all of the few interviewees with previous experience of exploitation and coercion decided to continue to work in the sex industry independently. All were able to draw clear distinctions between exploitative and non-exploitative practices in the sex industry .
# All of the few interviewees with previous experiences of exploitation and coercion underlined the key role played by clients in providing support when they managed to escape. They all underlined how restrictive migration policies and the criminalisation of clients and sex workers would make people more likely to take risks and accept undignified and dangerous conditions.
http://www.londonmet.ac.uk/research-units/iset/projects/esrc-migrant-workers.cfm
Evidence is out there. It just doesn’t suit Amanda’s ideology to publicise it.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 10:10AM PT
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as a rukle 90% of people hate thier jobs. Don't confuse someone not liking the only option they can think of to get by and the things they need in other words "work" with slavery or abuse.
Posted by X otix on 06/02/2009 @ 12:05PM PT
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This link:
http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/ElizabethsBlog/Melissa-Farley-in-Scotland)
didn't work for me. You need to remove the ) at the end to get it to work.
Criticizing published research is fair game. This particular critique is of Farley's study of people who pay for sex in Scotland. I think another researcher could get the missing details (consent, questionnaires etc.) from Farley. Normally that sort of thing is supposed to be available on request. I would not expect her research to be perfect. I don't expect anyone's to be.
There was research on "johns" reported in "Backstreets" (Hoigard and Finstad), which reported that they tended to be low in self esteem, and a study in Sex Roles, reporting that every one of the researchers was sexually harassed at one point or another during the research interviews. I don't remember anything else about either study, but at least there are other studies out there people can compare Farley's work to.
And at least we can look at her body of research and see that prostitution cannot be taken as a victimless crime, and that we need more good information so people know what is going on. It's food for thought.
I'm curious as to how representative Charlotte Seib's sample was.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 03:27PM PT
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Just to add a bit of fuel to this fire:
http://www.woodhullfoundation.org/content/otherpublications/WeitzerVAW-1.pdf
Posted by Anthony Machado on 06/03/2009 @ 12:23PM PT
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Catherine, we all have visions of a perfect world. What exactly is your ideaology of your perfect world as a sex worker? As a spokeswoman for the industry, would you paint a picture of the ideal environment for growth and satisfaction in your life? What exactly would you see empowering you through laws and lifestyle. How would you see your family fitting into the picture, how would you like to steer your ship under best practice conditions. Think of it as a business plan, most industries have one. This is what I'd like to understand. What is your vision in all of this?
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 01:55PM PT
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Hmm, quick question. Briefly … I’d settle for a world in which people were free to make choices for themselves, and that those choices were respected. And chocolate.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 02:02PM PT
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Oh, and I'm not a "spokeswoman for the industry" - no such thing exists, and if anyone tells you they are such a thing, they're talking crap. I'm an activist with an organisation that campaigns for human rights and the full protection of the law for _everyone_ in the sex industry, by choice, circumstance or coercion, and I rely on sex work for my income, as I have for nearly ten years.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 02:04PM PT
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This question isn't meant to be facetious. Realities have been presented here like soap bubbles. I would like to know how the sex industry would work with the conditions you feel are appropriate in your reality. It's a legit question. This post is full of examples that don't work, what does?
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 02:33PM PT
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"This question isn't meant to be facetious."
Sorry, Ishe, neither's my reply. But I have really limited time to delineate a utopian vision of society - this ("a world in which people were free to make choices for themselves, and that those choices were respected") remains the closest I'm likely to have the time to elucidate here. I try to bring that world closer by increasing the realism and the respect with which we debate issues around sex work.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 02:59PM PT
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All I'm interested in is you fleshing out for me what your campaign ideology is all about. I want to get real about your vision. Lets make it a given that you want legalisation. I'll leap to an assumption here that you also want the profession elevated to professional status. Does that mean you incorporate to achieve some kind of accreditation, like doctors, or other type of profession. Can you define for the profession a standard. Then lets say you are at the bank for a loan. The loan officer asks you for a business plan so that he/she can be confident of your ability to repay. Can you do that? Will you lay out an expansion plan maybe. More girls, a more upmarket location. How does your campaigning pan out in the big picture? I just want to know what you actually stand for. That's all.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 08:09PM PT
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hi Ishe
I’ve already said “a world in which people were free to make choices for themselves, and that those choices were respected”
and
“human rights and the full protection of the law for _everyone_ in the sex industry, whether by choice, circumstance or coercion,”
These are things that I want to be more than “soap bubbles”.
I’ve also explicitly and repeatedly referred to the harms of legalisation, but talked about decriminalisation; since you say “Lets make it a given that you want legalisation”, I don’t think you’ve been reading what I’ve written.
You say “Can you define for the profession a standard. Then lets say you are at the bank for a loan. The loan officer asks you for a business plan so that he/she can be confident of your ability to repay. Can you do that?”
You know, I don’t see developing financial services for people in the sex industry as an important part of my work right now. When we have the same human rights as non-sex workers, the same protection of the law, I’m sure there are people who will get around to that.
You say “I just want to know what you actually stand for.”
I want a world in which people are free to make choices for themselves - not “a more upmarket location.”
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/03/2009 @ 01:56AM PT
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“I have no idea what the proportion of consenting adults versus others is in Canada. I don't think anyone really does.”
In the UK, 80,000 people are estimated to work in the sex industry – mostly women, but also men and transgender people. The Home Office estimates 4,000 women (5%) are trafficked into prostitution. Estimates for the number of women engaged in street sex work range from as low as 3,000 and as high as 27,000, which shows the precision of the data; almost no men engage in street sex work. Non-trafficked indoor sex workers thus comprise 49,000 to 73,000 (61-91%), of the 80,000.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 02:55PM PT
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Is that trafficked as in brought in from another country, or trafficked as in forced in general? People use the word in different ways.
We have males working the street here. It probably varies a lot from country to country.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 03:08PM PT
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Trafficked as either Palermo Protocol or Sexual Offences Act 2003; the latter is so useless even the Home Office (who wrote the legislation) often use Palermo as the working definition. It would be great if Amanda did the same.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 03:15PM PT
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from Wikipedia entry for Palermo protocol:
" "Trafficking in persons" shall mean the recruitment, transportation, transfer, harbouring or receipt of persons, by means of the threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, of abduction, of fraud, of deception, of the abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability or of the giving or receiving of payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person, for the purpose of exploitation."
So that means all coercion/exploitation? Including the conventional pimp scenarios? 5% seems low for that.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 03:38PM PT
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“I have no idea what the proportion of consenting adults versus others is in Canada. I don't think anyone really does.”
In the UK, 80,000 people are estimated to work in the sex industry – mostly women, but also men and transgender people. The Home Office estimates 4,000 women (5%) are trafficked into prostitution. Estimates for the number of women engaged in street sex work range from as low as 3,000 and as high as 27,000, which shows the precision of the data; almost no men engage in street sex work. Non-trafficked indoor sex workers thus comprise 49,000 to 73,000 (61-91%), of the 80,000.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 02:55PM PT
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“there are other studies out there people can compare Farley's work to. And at least we can look at her body of research and see that prostitution cannot be taken as a victimless crime,”
There is also the work of Teela Sanders, who has done extensive research on paying for sex, and Hilary Kinnell's study that most violence to sex workers is _not_ from clients: evidence shows that the majority of robbery, abuse, harassment and physical or sexual violence experienced by sex workers in the course of their work comes from those who do not pay for sex. Many of these assailants make no pretence of being clients, but express hatred of sex workers and appear to feel their actions are legitimated by the social attitudes of abhorrence for commercial sex. Others may approach as if they were clients, but then refuse to pay, commit assaults and robberies, or violently force return of payment after having had sex. Criminalising clients will have no impact upon these perpetrators of abuse and violence who are already committing criminal acts against sex workers.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/02/2009 @ 03:47PM PT
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"Criminalising clients will have no impact upon these perpetrators of abuse and violence who are already committing criminal acts against sex workers."
True. These people are already criminals. So are the ones paying for sex with minors. And the ones paying for sex with adults who are being coerced. But they don't seem to be charged or convicted, much. Mostly because the people they hurt aren't in a position to get help, I guess. Or prejudice means the prostitute is just as likely to be charged as the perp (at least in some countries). Sigh.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/02/2009 @ 10:51PM PT
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Catherine, would you mind responding to my thread above. It might mean exposing your "inner John" but thats what honest discussion is all about.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/02/2009 @ 09:53PM PT
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hi Ishe
I’ve already said “a world in which people were free to make choices for themselves, and that those choices were respected”
and
“human rights and the full protection of the law for _everyone_ in the sex industry, whether by choice, circumstance or coercion,”
These are things that I want to be more than “soap bubbles”.
I’ve also explicitly and repeatedly referred to the harms of legalisation, but talked about decriminalisation; since you say “Lets make it a given that you want legalisation”, I don’t think you’ve been reading what I’ve written.
You say “Can you define for the profession a standard. Then lets say you are at the bank for a loan. The loan officer asks you for a business plan so that he/she can be confident of your ability to repay. Can you do that?”
You know, I don’t see developing financial services for people in the sex industry as an important part of my work right now. When we have the same human rights as non-sex workers, the same protection of the law, I’m sure there are people who will get around to that.
You say “I just want to know what you actually stand for.”
I want a world in which people are free to make choices for themselves - not “a more upmarket location.”
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/03/2009 @ 01:57AM PT
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In ancient Greek society, beautiful women-at-risk were trained and housed in a temple to the Goddess and were art models, flower arangers, agricultural workers, winemakers, weavers and dressmakers, the escorts and courtesans of athletes, healers and masseuses of warriors, hostesses at cultural events, advisors to philosophers and kings ... They were valuable and exalted human beings, not trash to be kicked to the curb ...
Perhaps a workable solution to this problem is to make beautiful women skilled, educated, creative, valuable and valued contributers to our society.
In enlightened societies this oldest profession is not a hustle but rather a flowering of a venerable, disciplined and valiant lifestyle ...
As I see it the real problem is male violence and the base low-life mentality that demeans the sacred gift of sexuality that a woman is free to choose to give in a society that is not conditioned by the male-dominance of the economic bottom-line.
Posted by Leslie Levy on 06/03/2009 @ 12:10AM PT
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How do you tax prostitution?
This is a funny argument. We are not exactly debating prostitution; we are debating human ownership. It is wrong to own someone else and sell them for their services. This is called slavery.
Prostitution is freedom of personal choice. Sure, it should be legal, but then how is our corrupt, fat, old, white, lying government going to tax it?
I am willing to bet that your very own government is profiting off of this.
Posted by Joseph Craig on 06/03/2009 @ 09:40AM PT
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I imagine they'd tax it in exactly the same way that tax tips on waiters and waitresses, or even taxing sole proprietorships.
Posted by Mike Conway on 06/03/2009 @ 09:59AM PT
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Leslie, good comments, but I think as simple an act as rereading the posts on this thread will convince you that many women hate and despise other women who offer sex for sale. Men clearly dominate the customer base and apparently commit almost all the violence, but women have their contributing role in the situation. It's like football: the guys do all the hitting, but the cheerleaders aren't entirely innocent of the violence. (And neither am I -- I like watching. Mea culpa.)
Catherine, thanks for your lucid, level-headed posts. I expect we would disagree about some things -- frankly, I have some personal distaste for your line of business -- but I imagine I'd enjoy a conversation with you. I like the way you think.
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 09:43AM PT
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Thanks, Douglas, that's a nice thing to say. I'm aware most people are unable to overlook their personal reactions to commercial sex (ooh, it's icky) to examine the evidence - and often then try to find evidence to justify their personal reactions. So thanks for stepping away from that.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/03/2009 @ 12:33PM PT
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You're welcome.
As I said, I have some personal distaste for your line of business. As a matter of strong moral principle, however, I believe that you didn't surrender your status as a human being when you chose your line of work. Simple as that. In what I imagine as a more nearly ideal world, that attitude would be common enough that you wouldn't feel impelled to thank me for it.
But the world isn't nearly ideal, so, as I said, you're welcome.
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 01:58PM PT
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Yes, human trafficking and prostitution are different issues. Yea!
You tax tax the business of prostitution like you do any other business. Licensing fees/dues, LLC/Corp formation, and ....ummm... state and federal income taxes (ect) as normal.
Income needs to be declared and evading taxes is a crime in general. People can choose not to declare their income and some do, but Uncle Sam will not look kindly upon that.... =O
Besides, no one like it when the IRS is probing their rectum for receipts and income statements. It all feels a little awkward and a uncomfortable, and sordid. =O
Posted by James O'Neill on 06/03/2009 @ 09:58AM PT
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Since pimping is illegal in Canada, but prostitution itself is legal, legal prostitutes are effectively sole proprietorships. So you declare your income and expenses and that's it. No licencing, no incorporation. Just your basic home-based business expenses. Of course, I have no idea how many prostitutes who work independently actually declare their income. Or if they ever get audited.
Posted by Anemone Cerridwen on 06/03/2009 @ 10:34PM PT
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Tax enforcement can get a bit tricky. Say the establishment runs out of a bar next to an apartment complex. The prostitutes have apartments in the complex and work as hostesses and waitresses, and maybe as dancers, in the bar. The bar has liquor and entertainment licenses, pays employer taxes, provides health insurance, etc., etc. The sex transactions are cash, in the apartments, off the books. The prostitutes might even report some of the cash income as tips from waitressing. See the problem? Keeping it illegal but not criminal, as Catherine suggested, may provide a better balance. As I said before, I just don't know, and haven't seen much evidence to support a conclusion. What I absolutely do favor is an arrangement that provides excellent health care, with frequent checkups and rapid public health intervention to prevent spread of outbreaks of communicable diseases!
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 11:59AM PT
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Just to be clear, I, like most human rights' focussed campaigns on sex work, campaign for decriminalisation, so sex work and associated services (eg running a brothel) would not be illegal.
Also, evidence shows that where sex workers have access to health care and the power to negotiate, our safe sex practise is more stringent than that of "amateurs"; I get a bit twitchy when people start talking about health check ups, as often this is predicated on the idea that it's us hookers need the checks not our clients, often reinforcing established cultural attitudes about "dirty" women. In fact, when supported in doing so, sex workers have been effective agents of safe sex training for clients - eg, in India working with long distance lorry drivers.
An enjoyable, evidence based read exploring public health issues in HIV/AIDS is Elizabeth Pisani's "The Wisdom of Whores."
http://www.wisdomofwhores.com/
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/03/2009 @ 12:39PM PT
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Taxation: It is going to be no trickier than it is now. The system relies on some level of honesty of the individual - waitresses and strippers are good examples of those who have a lot of cash as a part of their payment. I own a small business and believe me, accountants get paid to do their job for a reason.
You are stating problems that are present anytime cash is the primary medium with which services/items are paid for. This is nothing new.
Diseases: legalizing and licensing prostitution and enacting disease testing and a no drug use policy as I have mentioned in depth above will go a long way towards that disease monitoring and prevention.
Posted by James O'Neill on 06/03/2009 @ 12:19PM PT
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If sex workers get a disease it is most likely from one of 2 places... drug use or someone they had sex with, so I really agree with you. "Johns" need tests too so as to not endanger the health of the sex worker, or of their future clients.
I mention that above as well.
Posted by James O'Neill on 06/03/2009 @ 12:44PM PT
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I draw my conclusions from my own experiences and monitoring the megatrends as they reveal themselves. Lots is being revealed at this time in history. Look at the big picture and move out of survival thinking. Western women are voting with their feet and would rather become single mothers than bring up not only their children, but also "raise" their partners. Yes, by God there needs to be a Men's Movement. Men have been pretending far too long. They learned inauthenticity from their fathers. Some learned to be SNAGS, but that's a pretence as well. Its time to face their shadows.
What is wearing a burkha in the Islamic context, but a placation of the runaway sexual drives of men. What is prostitution but a placation of the runaway sexual drives of men. From both ends of the spectrum the women only play the role of placator. I don't want to spend my life, or that of the generation to come, as simply poring oil on the water. That's real human rights, that's REAL freedom of choice.
I don't think the answer is an Institute of Applied Prostitution coming to a campus near me. The answer is men reclaiming themselves. That won't happen by distraction, and we are all good at being distracted these days. It will happen when we take that sexual energy and apply it to what we came here for.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 01:39PM PT
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“That's real human rights, that's REAL freedom of choice.”
Sounds like you feel that people who make choices with which you disagree aren’t making ‘real choices’: ‘for her own good’ is rarely an attitude which has benefited women.
“I don't think the answer is an Institute of Applied Prostitution”
We’re agreed there. IMO, the answer is respect for human rights and freedom of choice. Hopefully that’s something many readers of this blog agree with.
Posted by Catherine Stephens on 06/03/2009 @ 01:48PM PT
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Ishe, I'm not sure I understand your point. In countries such as the US, marriage is becoming less popular, living together without marriage more so. Breakups, partner abuse and neglect of children seem to be rising precipitously at the same time. Freedom of individual choice often comes at a price to others.
If you're suggesting that most of the problems in family and other interpersonal relations come from men, I think you're in fantasy land. As far as I can tell from considerable experience, women and members of ethnic minorities, given the right motivation and opportunities, readily show that they can behave every bit as badly as white non-minority men.
Something like an Institute of Applied Prostitution has, in fact, been tried -- not by that name, of course -- on some campuses. When I was an undergrad at Berkeley in the late 1960s, we had about a two-year stretch when prostitution pretty much disappeared near campus -- I guess the non-professional activity had driven the pros out of the market. A few years later, and for many years thereafter, the San Francisco papers and Yellow Pages carried steamy ads inviting visitors to the Bay Area to come on over to Berkeley and see what all the excitement was about -- suffice it to say it didn't appear to be about "free love," as the offerings didn't appear (I didn't check in person) to be free. The net result was an explosion of STDs in the Bay Area, mostly during the earlier years, when -- as Catherine said -- the activity was mostly _not_ professionals who were realistic about risks and treated their health as a valuable economic asset. So, I'd agree, not a good solution.
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 02:09PM PT
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I should add that _Mayflower Madam_, by Sydney Biddle Barrows, is a surprisingly good read. She did very well for a while by treating her workers unusually well. But when she tried to push other owners and managers in the industry to cooperate to provide better health care, many of them -- female and male -- turned against her. Marx and Engels were wrong and Orwell was right: working stiffs who acquire power tend to stop thinking and acting like other working stiffs and start acting like other people with power.
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 02:21PM PT
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My entire point has been missed. The burkha wearing and the Western proliferation of the sex industry is simply women responding by the equivalent of locking the cupboard where the Boggart lives. Perhaps women have more important things to do with their time and energy. I don't see my role as "placator". In fact, I take it as a duty to open that cupboard.
I still haven't seen where Catherine's campaigning translates in the real world. Maybe Catherine you can let me know when you've thought it through.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 02:54PM PT
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Well, Ishe, I have to agree completely with you about one thing: I'm not getting your point!
I understand your argument that women either hiding or exploiting their sexual atractiveness amounts to letting men unduly influence the women's choices. From there, I'm afraid you lost me. From what do you want men to reclaim themselves, and how? And what laws and policies would accomplish this?
On the other hand, I think I do see Catherine's point. Men and women can and should try to determine, from available facts, what laws, policies and practices would reduce human trafficking and other forms of coercion, and then push to enact those laws, policies and practices, without getting hung up debating moral attitudes about prostitution. Sounds real-world enough to me. Did I miss something?
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 03:14PM PT
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My point is that men acknowledge their lack of self-control when it comes to sexual matters. In the book "Manhood - A Book about Setting Men Free" Steve Biddulf urges men to face "the creep" after a friend of his who became quadiplegic and yet was still self-conscious acknowledged quite honestly that he could feel himself becoming one. Still, after men acknowledge this, their response is to either cover the women, or create a demand for an arena in which the creep has free reign. In either case the women placate by either wearing "the Wall" or creating a supply stream. It's a handy way for the creep to stay hidden don't you think?
I'm not from the UK so my response to that isn't likey to be "ridiculous", it's more likely to be "bullshit".
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 04:31PM PT
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Don't you think some men have considerably more sexual self-awareness and self-control than others? Your posts make it sound as if all men are pretty much alike in this respect. I seriously doubt that.
I do get that some of the most repressive moralizing against female sexuality comes from men who can't control their impulses. Seems as if at least once a year we have some well-known fire-and-brimstone preacher caught doin' the nasty. Oops! Not a new discovery in human behavior, and definitely of some importance. But not the whole story, right?
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 05:24PM PT
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Not the whole story but a big chunk of it I suggest. I always know when I've hit a little close to home when the resistance comes up. And there hasn't been a law framed that can yet make anyone take responsibility for their own creep. Only laws that might protect one from other people's creep. To be a "person" is to harness those nasty impulses and also not to pander to them. That takes recognition for a beginning, strengthening personal willpower and fostering empathy first for oneself before it can extend to others.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 08:46PM PT
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END HUMAN TRAFFICKING, AND YOU END LIFE ON THE INTERNET, IF MY DIRECTIONS ARE'NT TAKEN TO DELETE GLOBAL WARMING, THEIR WONT BE ANY SPECIES ON EARTH BY THE END OF 2028 AND YOU'LL HAVE YOUR WISH, BUT NO MORE ANYTHING ON EARTH, JUST IN EARTH. http://www.inventube.com/ooojay/blog/ HAVE A NICE DAY. MIKE
Posted by MICHAEL SCHMITZ on 06/03/2009 @ 09:03PM PT
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On considering it further, it might not be the prologue or the epilogue, but its definately the body of the story.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 09:18PM PT
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Encountering resistance could mean either that you're getting close to uncomfortable truth or that you're going offensively wrong. If you're pointing out that many of us aren't honest with ourselves about our impulses, I'd say you're getting close to uncomfortable truth. If this is a variant of "all men are creeps," I'd object, and not because I think you're too close to the truth.
"Who is strong? He who subdues his evil (selfish) inclination."
Sound about right to you? It's about 2000 years old, from the Talmud. Now, as then, some people get it, some don't. Right?
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/03/2009 @ 09:30PM PT
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Where have I said "all men are creeps"? If anything I am alluding to the idea that we all, men and women alike, have a creep. The man's creep perverts his sexual energy, the woman's creep allows that to proliferate either through fear or personal gain. Either way it's still creepy. Right, some get it, some don't. Many things that are old still have strength to offer us today. Creepiness is old too, but has it anything to offer us?
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/03/2009 @ 09:47PM PT
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Agreed, you didn't say "All men are creeps." My concern was that you got close enough to make it unclear whether you were implying that without saying it.
As for your last question, creepy is in the eye of the beholder, and also context-dependent. "If it were not for the evil impulse," the Talmudic sages note, "no man would take a wife or build a house."
The essential idea is that no human characteristic is inherently good or bad. It's what we decide to do with them that counts.
By the way, I don't see that we're seriously disagreeing about anything so far. There's just some unclarity in the communication -- another common event among humans.
Posted by Doug Samuelson on 06/04/2009 @ 07:53AM PT
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It seems obvious to me that this is mearly about inflicting your moral views on others. Trying to portray this as a human traficking argument is foolish. I doubt anyone is for human traffcicing but you dont speak against human trafficing when its used to make your clothes labeledwith made in the usa. You dont speak against human trafficking when its the wealthy family keeping unpaid or massively underpaid servants. you dont speak against human trafficking when its being used to make your cheap goods for department stores. You dont speak against human trafficking when it results in you getting what you want at a cheap price. I am against all forms of human trafficking. But a 20 year old girl having trouble paying her college tuition and decides to "hook" a few days a week to make up the difference is not the same thing. This is the case of a person whos finances dont work out, who is willing to perform her CHOSEN work. I think most of your issues come from personal insecurities. If you dont like men and feel all sex is violence against woman then your viewpoint is obviously so biases as to be pointless. If your concerned that your husband/befriend will be taking up these services, make sure he doenst feel the need top. If your worried about your daughters participating, raise them well and support them. Enforcing your morality doesnt help anyone. It just makes the lives of others more difficult. If a woman needs to do this to provide for her children, or go to college, or pay for anything else she may need(or yes in some cases because she enjoys it) that is her decision. Just as the man who feels he needs to pay for sex, or just wants to meet his sexual needs without playing any games on dates with you, that is his (poor) choice. When a group of people spend there time trying to tell others what to do you can guarantee that there own house is not in order. Ger yourself put together, Get your own life straight, get your priorities in order, then you may find a way to be happy with yourself without having to find other people persecute.
Posted by X otix on 06/04/2009 @ 08:00AM PT
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Doug
*As for your last question, creepy is in the eye of the beholder and also context-dependant. "If it were not for the evil impulse" the Talmudic sages note, "no man would take a wife or build a house".*
You might just be talking about the birth of the creep there. Some call it original sin, I call it knowledge of original sin. In other words, knowing about the creep and being it anyway. Through the ages people would interpret the above as takiing a wife and building a house IS the evil impulse. Where we are today is how that's played out. Yes it is in the eye of the beholder.
*The essential idea is that no human characteristic is inherently good or bad. It's what we decide to do with them that counts.*
Human is the operative word here. If you can no longer feel, then you have traded your humanity for the creep. But yes, you can always choose to be human again. We have free will.
X Olix,
This is what the creep is famous for. It keeps you busy, distracted, and in survival mode. Your post seems like justification for being creepy to me.
Posted by Oceania OZ on 06/04/2009 @ 09:07AM PT
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This post is now closed to comments due to the high volume. I hope this conversation will continue on other parts of this site. If you are interested in another post related to prostitution policy, here is one: http://humantrafficking.change.org/blog/view/the_swedish_model_criminalizing_the_buyer
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 06/04/2009 @ 12:38PM PT
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